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my son is 3.8yrs and going to lkg.. he is a v.slow talker.. he never talks in school with his friends.. even when his teacher asks any ques, he never answers.. he is shy too.. he never talks with strangers.. b'coz of this none of his class mates sits near him.. he sits alone in the class.. iam v.much worried.. wat could be done.. dnyanesh replied. Hi, Pls dont take it so seriously. R U or your hubby are talketive. or other family members. Dont develop any fear in his mind. Speak to him about every dus. Tell him everything that you do in house, prepairing food, washing, cleaning etc. Thingk as if he has grown up & understands everything. U start acting bold in society & u will get the results is what I think.

Regds -dnyanesh smitha replied. its very natural for children of his age to prefer to be alone. It may be his inherent personality.Some kids are fast talkers, some dont communicate , some like to play alone, some like to play with others. I dont think you should be unduely worried about him.

If you still are unsure, find out if your school has a counsellor. You may want to talk to that person. The best method is ofcourse to introduce him to a lot of social activities. hi replied. hi
he is very young so i think it is time for u to change him to some EXTEND. but basically i think we cannot change one person's behaviour. u know, some kids they may not be shy they have their own preferences, then only they will talk and play.

but i think now, u can take him to playgrounds or with relatives who have kids. and encourage hm to play with them. with u find ur child is comfortable playng with. slowly slowly change him. tell him to talk with others. always make situations and encourage him. tell him 'u have to talk to ur teacher and friends ' . i think basically he may be a quiet child. but u have to make him understand that he has to stand up for himself always in life. rest he can dos he wish. best of luck