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Name: Kavya

Hi Friends,

Can you find permanent solace, emotional satisfaction or happiness in EMA I think not than why do we sacrifice our confidence, virtues, values, soul and body in this act? A big question to ponder about.

Though we are well aware of the consequences and results of an EMA still we keep on hoping for the miracles to happen. If we can not get passed even by grace marks in a marriage than we might not get first division in EMA also, still we do indulge if not physically than emotionally , in thoughts with someone else.

We are committed in a relationship and constantly in awe and comparison with the other person if I would have been married to someone else I might have been more happier like this and that.

Even big and mighty purposefully or ignorantly indulge in this act ( take the case of charles, most of the Hollywood and bollywood film stars , sports persons).

Life is so short and full on unwanted incidences. Further, what I feel is handling a spouse is one on the trickiest and easiest thing. Guys demand authority, bit of spice, , no nagging or questioning, respect, space etc. Whereas women want love, care , bit of relaxation , understanding and above all somebody to listen and appreciate what they do. ( even if food is bad than also do appreciate her efforts)

So can not we make this world a better place to live and eradicate wrongdoings ….

EMA is an easy option where no efforts are needed only main requisite is weak, vulnerable and confused man/woman running away from the responsibilities, reality, present and himself above all.

So please advice by placing yourself in those circumstances and after logical thinking

What do you feel?
Kavya

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