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Hi all!!i have been a silent member all this while in this board.and 90 of topics are about in-laws . saying how bad they are. can' t pl post topics where we have good in-laws stories to read about?these topics only scare unmarried girls like me.and i have seen girls who have nice in-laws too. gg replied. i will help u ..its not at all necessary in laws are bad...pl sremove this topic from ur mind completely...
i stay in a family of 15 members...we all love each other ..n care for each other a lot ..we enjoy...everyday is a party for us...there is not even a single day we sit depressed ....n whn there is a get 2gether at home my god...pls u cant even imagine fun we have ...mine was a love mrrg ...first love mrrg in my husband' s family ...my husband ddnt even know how to talk to a girl properly ...i use to wonder am i getting mrrd to right person..the day he saw me he had decided he want to marry me...
his parents were too against me ..specially his father ...the way the enitre family stood by me n convince d them i cant tell u ...still its the same ...
only thing i have a small prob of mil...
but i get so much of love that i use to ignore her...i always ignored her....infact u can say i enjoy more in my laws place than my mother' s place...if you ask me whther i want to stay in a nuclear family or joint i wud still prefer joint ....i am scared statying alone ....or hate the idea of staying ....alone..now my fil cares for me so much...touchwood ...if u see me i am still the same mischeivious girl like i was b4 mrrg....i enjoy a lot ...
but i will def scare you about this mil....lots of girls had scare me about mil..but i use to think what a lovely mil i have b4 mrrg...she is a monster in law now...
but u learn how to handle them after soemtime...all i can say god forbid is u come across a character liek this...then be calm ..very imp first learn all the things from her...coz no matter how smart u are she has taken care of ur hubby all these years...n they are very possessive about their sons...
intially i use to cry alot...depressed all the time..my husband n i wud fight with wach other ...coz of mil...but slowly i became friends with all the memebrs ...now things are fine...
do ur best ...be nice to ur mil...dont be rude or fight with her...if she is nagging then just ignore her ...never ever bacl answer her...here there is a cathch u really hv to be patient ...n tuff here....married life is a very nice life...and joint family rocks...my family is just like hum saath saath hain...touchwood...with flirty bro- inlaws liek saif...
touch wood.... piya replied. dear neha,
good idea...so why dont u get those friends of urs who r having good in-laws to post their happy stories here. dear girl the percentage of such lucky girls is very minute...majority of us r having issues with in-laws n thats why this board exists to give n take advice n share experiences n learn . its not at all meant to scare the unmarried girls like u.in-fact it might just act as an eye opener for young girls.
good luck n i sincerely wish that u get the best in-laws in furture.