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Hi Guys and gals,

I was just thinking and came this thought I thought you might like to share your valuable views , ideas

How to you feel/ think when you see your extensions in the form of your kids your procreations ….what thoughts cross your mind …feeling that you can add something unique to this world which no money can do ….

Now what I feel is

I feel secure, more confident, complete, and sometimes unbelievable when I see my kids … nothing compares to their innocent , purity and unconditional love ….they can bring new meaning to the prospect of life ….life becomes meaningful and worth appreciating when I see my extensions ……they are the result of love you and your partner share the feeling is awesome

But I sometimes I feel terrible and helpless reading all that bad stuff happening to the kids in school and society I …I feel sad I feel joyous I feel different when I am with my kids

I have more apprehension towards my baby girl though she is very young yet I have started dreaming about her future… how can I protect her from the bad things etc .

I have more tenderness and soft corner for my baby doll

List is endless and I can go on and on

Friends I would like to listen from you too…
Regards ,
Tamanna

Tamanna replied. Hi Ritika, Swapana, Shrawani, Rakhi and Rajeev,

Do you know even reading about your views brought so much softness and tenderness in my attitude. I loved and appreciate views shared by you all. They are the best creature of god and nothing can be as pure as them …every thing about them is invaluable

Question is can we do some modifications in the society which is a rarity for safeguard of our kids …..this we will discuss some other time

No Ritika I have not seen that movie but have cassette as I am fond of songs from that movie .

Thanks for sharing friends,
Tamanna
Ritika replied. Nice topic Tamanna! :) *your name reminds me of an old Pooja Bhatt movie..did you see it?*

I never thought in my whole life that I could feel so much love, tenderness and protective tendency, as what I feel for my baby.

The thought of her brings joy and a smile to me inside and out. No wonder they call babies \" bhagwan ka roop\" ..they are so sweet, innocent and lovable...

I just feel so happy and blessed when I look at my baby. I am constantly amazed at the little milestones that she reaches...like sitting up, crawling, standing etc...:)

And yes, after having her, I can' t bear to see or read any bad news about kids.

It has made me want to do more about the unfortunate children out there in the world who have no one to care for them. So much cruelty is there in the world and children are so defenseless against it.

It sometimes breaks my heart to hear stories like a child falling down a tube well/bore well, a father throwing his daughter from a bridge into a river, a mother tying up her mentally handicapped 5 yr girl to a tree etc.

I hope and pray for all children that they get all the love and warmth they can and should in this world.

Take care,
Ritika Swapna replied. I have a 6 month old dd and I can' t be parted from her even for a second. When she was a new born ,I left her with my mom to get out with my husband ,but my mind would always be with her. I used to call every few mins and make sure she was OK. When I hear her crying in the background, I' d literally have tears in my tears. When she had her shots, I cried harder than her.
She' s such a doll. She recognises me among a million others and would look out for me all the time. She smiles ever so beautifully even if I simply look at her. When I go to pick her up from her crib in the morning, she' d grab my face and lick all over my face and look full into my face and give me the widest smile ever. I can go on and on...
And oh,I can' t wait for her to call me mama. That' s why I decided to not to go back to work until I had enough of her childhood or else I' d miss out so much.
Even I worry about her future. Im so worried about all the perverts out there that abuse small and innocent children. I only hope I have the strength and courage to bring her up tough and strong and to stand up for herself shravani replied. For me too my kids are my whole and soul , they are what I am living for, Bringing them up is like an art, there are soo many things that you want them to learn, and be like.
They make me proud , they are my love , I feel responsible for their good upbringing, for them to be a good human being and a responsible adult when they grow up. At the same time I want them to be spiritually inclined and not succumb to the harsh competitions and rat races , and the bad elements of the society. So nurturing them, making them physically and mentally strong, giving them unconditional love and letting them enjoy their childhood is a very demanding and interesting job for a mother and truely I cannot think of anything else to be more important than that. Now that they both go to school, I find time for myself too, I do Yoga, read books, cook new recipes and am delighted whenever my kids appreciate me, hug me, say that they love me . They are a gift of God , and I am grateful to Him for them. Rajeev replied. They have the power to bring tears to your eyes when they are happy or sad . I am a man still sometimes I have tears in my eyes when I see my kids . Their touch their talks are beyond any comparison . They bring true joy to your life and can be great source of energy. They lift your aspirations and give true meaning to your life .
God bless all the kids and keep them away from diseases
Rajeev
Rakhi replied. Dear Tamanna,

I liked your views and topic chosen by you …what happened to your problem any solutions yet. Well I agree to some points raised by you but sometimes kids are so irritating especially when they are fussy eaters … they keep you occupied whole day and you find no time for your hobbies , reading books novels watching TV .They bring happiness and joy in your life . sometimes I pinch myself when I see them them sleeping together they are so cute . One more aspect I would like to add up is they make you more social you start talking to strangers also . They can talk and walk whole day without eating food and would not complain for us food is everything. They learn things very fast as compared to elders .
Take car
Rakhi