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Hi friends and Teja alias S,

After listening to your suggestions and implementing some of them helped my life tremendously … thank you so much for the kind support ..

Well I have made few modifications in my lifestyle, hairstyle and thinking process too …

I have lost 2 kg weight after joining Yoga classes and got stitched lots of new dresses for myself … I have stopped not in totality of course but decreased frequency about negative thinking… go for morning walk as and when my schedule permits … go for outings with my elder kid and enjoy ridings, see saw , swings with him I feel extremely good seeing him happy and chuckling …he is the great source of inspiration for me… I have started ignoring my husband and he has also noticed the change and after so many years complimented on my looks and suit I wore ( his favourite colour) and asked if we could have dinner outside I agreed immediately and we enjoyed the day no nagging no questioning

He was little bit jealous which I enjoyed honestly speaking when people complimented

Now I have realized few things
 Loosing weight can add lots of charm, confidence , and positivity in your life,
 Positive thinking is the essence of any relationship
 Sometimes ignoring your partners can bring joy in your life
 If you want to be happy start feeling good about yourself first of all your body and everything
 Life is after all not so negative and complicated as it seems
 Kids can do miracles in your life they are the GOD’s Avatar
 Stop worrying about the past and future live in the present

Sorry for such along mail but I am really grateful to you guys for all the support and nice words …please keep sending your positive vibes and prayers

Regards,
Shivani
S replied. Hi Shivani

sorry but I am not teja...Probably that person was using \" S\" alias too :) I am really sorry but was extremely busy with work and logging after long time today....

I read progress on your side and am very very happy for you. Believe me, I am trying to implement the same :) My prayers are always with you. In our case, eating out and attending socials, is very normal part of life as I am a very social person and its good for kids too...But there is big silence between us and its increasing day by day...Before we used to fight and complain, now we don' t do that too...Has just accepted things as is...I have joined yoga classes, attended one session and then again now i will go this weekend...So true, looking good helps positivity in life but if someone notices :)

I am really sorry but am not in good mood right now...Will write you soon at your personal email address

Take care and my best wishes are always with you...

S Rakhi replied. Dear Shivani,
i was following your messages and felt good when i heard that you have brought new dimensions to your life. How is his behaviour towards you now. Has he started caring about you and your needs i was just curious to know . Keep the spirit going . i would also like to loose weight weight could you please guide me how?
Rakhi