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Money Matters:pls suggest
2008-12-09
Name: MM MM



i need one suggestion from u all.........
i have twins of 3yrs old and my husabdn got an germany offer nd he left us back nd went for earning.i stay back with my mom along with kids.even im working in software field.
now he is trying ajob for me their and asking me to leave kids back in inida since the education is coslty their nd asking to come nd earn and also he is missing me a lot.
i dnt understand whether to leave kids r go with them their ....im unable to leave my kids here back in india.
we r not so financially strong.his belief is that we should make money for kids when we have opportunity.please suggest someone wht to do in this situation.
its time to earn for kids but also to be with them.....how kids feel ...i think they l miss their parents alot?
im unable to decide.

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2010-05-23
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Anonymous Name: Anushka Gill
Subject:  Why let your child eaarn at an early age?



I think we as responsible parents should have enough financial back up for our children to wade their way through struggles of life. Why let them earn so early?
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2009-08-08
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Anonymous Name: vijaytc
Subject:  parenting



parenting is a once a life time opportunity making mistakes there can cost you a lot towards later years in life. Whatever money you earn now will not help you then. strike a balance let your husband earn as money is importatnt but at the same time you can take care of parenting ofcourse you can always take short trips to be with him and need not neglect paretal attention needed to children in formative years.
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2009-01-20
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Anonymous Name: Ecstasy
Subject:  Hi



You should not leave your kids and go for earning....this is the time when you need to spend time with them....think of take the kids with you. Money is not all.
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