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i have been married for the last 5 yrs n i share a very good relation wiht my husband but there is one thing we always disagree on. he loves to eye other women be it any public gathering i have confronted him a lot of times coz i am very distressed coz of this but every time he refuses to accept it n says u r just imagininig things. i am very sure i am not now it has come to a point that i cant take it any more coz its destroying me from inside i hate him when he does it wherever he goes n the result of it is i feel so alone when i am with him somewhere coz he is lost in his own fantasy world.i cant take it anymore how to do deal with it. it has come to the point that i have started hating him n hence no sex between us. its been 15-20 days but he is not ready to accept it. please advise what do i do. Deepti replied. get a video camera and either u or someone else can record him & catch him in the \" act\" & then show it to him as proof.

or else just ignore it, as long as he doesn' t go beyond staring. (& hope some woman slaps him for eyeing her)

or 3rd suggestion. get a couple who r ur friends but whom ur husband doesn' t know & stage a fake confrontation. make the girl wear a revealing outfit and once ur hubby starts ogling her, she & her hubby/boyfriend can confront ur hubby & publicly humiliate him :)

i am so sorry for u. hope u can make ur hubby apologize. RAMAN replied.
Dear Toddler,

Your husband is getting active sex from you. This is the cause of starring.

Try to improve your part by b..w job, lay on top etc.. KUNJULAKSHMI replied.
Hi Toddler,

99% of men feel other ladies more beautiful than their wives eventhough their wife is a former Ms.World. They will get some sort of pleasure by starring other ladies.

Some husbands are narrating (telling) their wife about how he will enjoy if he get the starred lady. THINGS ARE GOING THAT MUCH.

IF YOU TRY TILL THE END OF YOUR LIFE HE DON' T CHANGE. ADJUST YOUR LIFE WITH IT & IF HE GO BEYOND HIS STARRING GIVE A KICK ON HIS BACK ON THE SPOT WHEREVER HE IS. Sister replied. Tel him on the face to just stop it.He has taken u for granted to do it in front of u.Just embrass him for doing that.
U have to put ur foot down firmly for this.It cannt go on like this.Take a stand & ask him to learn to behave. sarika replied. dear toddler, I can understand what you are going thru because I am also in the same boat. Last 20 years I tried to make him understand but could not. It is really heart breaking and embarrassing. He behaves so innocent, never admit what he did. I have nothing to advise you. Only I can share your sorrow. Why can' t they understand? SL replied. Any body complained to you that ur husband is staring at them, if so, u have to talk to him and ask him ' What if some male person stare at you even though ur husband is next to you\" and \" What if you stare at some male person even though he is next to you\" , see what he replies.... follow the the result is your solution.