Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi Amritha,
It's great that you have adopted..and it needs a good soul to adopt another's child..but keep in mind this is a very emotional issue for a women , so it is like pricking thier sentiments or like tiuching fire for the women who go throw infertility.More over i have seen women who adopted and still they try desparately to have thier own child..b'coz the feeling of being infertile never changes, even though they adopt..and i have seen so many couple who adopted also, still they feel like some thing didn't fullfill in their life..so be carefull when you give such advice..it is ok to keep these feeling in your mind if you feel it is right or wonderfull. . replied. hello s replied. I completely agree with amrita...i mean she just let out her opinion...u dnt hve to jump down her throat for this.

Its a fact and so she shared it ....if u dnt like it..just ignore it.... amrita replied. anju

isnt the whole point of a messag board to share ur opinion and views with others??

first of all, i havent adopted yet. I am going to. please read my mssg in the previous replies.

Also, i was deemed infetile as well. by some chance, i got pregnant.

Also, my doctor said that fertility increases once i get pregnant and have a baby.

so it is only my assumption (on the basis of what the doctor commented) that i can have more of my own.

I may be also infertile. (probably am).

Dont think me as someone who is flaunting my 'superiority' just because i cud conceive.

My intentions are very very honorable and i have no malice in my mind.

I first came across this message board becuse i was searching the net for women with PCOS problems.

I was only sharing my opinion with others cos i have gone thru what u may have gone thru.

I agree that infertility is a very sensitive issue. I know---i have been thru it.

I was a member of this board before. I was onl sharing the events of my life in the recent past.

i was amazed the way people like beautifuleyes jumped down my throat.

All i request is please take it in the right sense, else just ignore it.

NO intentions to hurt u or anybody on this board.
God bless
Best Regards
take it int he right sense.