Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi everybody!!!

I had my periods after 45 days and to think it has been yet another bummer.
I don't know how to console myself.Even while writing this I can't contain myself from crying.My hubby has been supportive,never shows his sorrow,that pains me more.

I really really wish that I cud have that one pink line at least once ,never known ever what it feels to be pregnant.

I want to give up even thinking about a baby.

I don't know what I should do to have a baby.

Will this wait ever ever end.

Can't write more.

With lots of tears
Luv,
S M roops replied. dont worry dear..take a break or vacation for some time..it may help you..you will definitely get one day.. all the best.. Nikk's replied. Hey,

Don't worry sweety!! You will see a pink line soon ....and then you will forget all the bad things that hapnd in the past. This is just one of the ways of god testing one's patience at times like this....so have faith in god and yourself....thgs will happen so fast that you will not even know ...keep urself busy with smethg you like doing...take some painting classes....I too was getting sooo paranoid with the whole baby planning that I joined a college here in US and am studying french...it keeps me busy and mind astray from thinking bad things...so do smethg that will keep you busy...or you know what?? go ahead and pamper yourself...by getting a facial, manicure, pedicure and a nice haircut...this will make you feel like a new person altogether....take care and be happy hon.

much love
Nikk's Shree replied. Cheer up dear !!! What kshama said is right.WE shd try to be like that ..but its very difficult.
Anyways keep ur hope high ..and one day u will win.Hopefully all of us wud see the bright pink line very very soon.
Lots of luv and hugs
Shree pari replied. Hi, SM,
warm hugs to u! im really sorry to hear that. but u never know how soon u may conceive. take a break. that will give u more strength to try again. and stop logging onto this site for some time. try listening to the gayathri mantra when u r upset. it always gave me a lot of strength.
for a cycle, just give up the efforts for ttc but keep ur ovulation dates in mind and have sex just to enjoy intimacy of ur husband. one more thing, husbands dont go thru that much sorrow as wives do. they do want to have children but it doesnt affect them as much as it affects women bcoz anyway, they never get to carry the baby or deliver it. they are not under that much pressure, bcoz infertility is considered more or less to be the woman's problem. they are able to cope better than us. thats wot i read in psychology books.
hope u feel better soon.
u r in my prayers.
love,
pari. pari replied. Hi, SM,
warm hugs to u! im really sorry to hear that. but u never know how soon u may conceive. take a break. that will give u more strength to try again. and stop logging onto this site for some time. try listening to the gayathri mantra when u r upset. it always gave me a lot of strength.
for a cycle, just give up the efforts for ttc but keep ur ovulation dates in mind and have sex just to enjoy intimacy of ur husband. one more thing, husbands dont go thru that much sorrow as wives do. they do want to have children but it doesnt affect them as much as it affects women bcoz anyway, they never get to carry the baby or deliver it. they are not under that much pressure, bcoz infertility is considered more or less to be the woman's problem. they are able to cope better than us. thats wot i read in psychology books.
hope u feel better soon.
u r in my prayers.
love,
pari. kshama replied. Hi SM,
I really d not know what to tell u and console u.
Be brave girl. Please learn to go on with life. Infertility is not everything in life. I have made up my mind that i will be taking treatment but not once will i think that i would get pregnant. I will surely get one day, but don't know when. So why are we longing so much on something which we do not know and which is not in our control. Just move on with u'r life. Forget about TTC.

luv
kshama