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I know that this is not a right form to post this. But freinds i am in need of help. Pls come on with your suggestion and advise to this problem.

Hi all,

My daughter she is now 3 years old... her acton is making me to be more worried. Especially when i take her out to park or somewhere she acts very bad like hitting other kids, pushing them from top... if i yell at her she just screams like anything ...,, i find all kids on same age group they listens to their parents and vey obidient. Why my daughter is like that. She has no control... if i tell her do not do that she doesn' t listent to it she just ignores and yells and will give a hard pinch to me and runs..... so all parents and my freinds sourrounding really thinks bad about me and my husband as they feel there is a problem with her up bringing. They will not allow thier kids to play with my daughter. Initially they used to allow ... but now they stopped. This and all makes me to be more worried..

She screams, yells, cries, (this doesn' t looks normal sometime).

Freinds pls tell me.. Is this normal behavior for her age. What i should do in order to control her behavior. Due to her behavior no freinds gives attention to my talk. I feel really neglected. My self confidence is reducing day by day... I stat finding mistakes in me and going to depression.

I really need help from you freinds.



Chameli replied. Hey

What Priya said shud work.U need not worry this much.This is kind o passing cloud.

If some friends are neglecting u because of ur daughters behavior just forget being friends with.Better be alone than in such company. subha replied. If you have not got satisfactory replies ask Saheli. She provides good answers for family issues and I think she can also answer your problem. But she doesnot write in this board. Put your post in role of inlaws Priya replied. Oh ..What is there to get depressed ??

I too am a Mom of 3.5 yr old boy ... One time when he was may be 2.5 yrs he used to do the exact same thing .. beating other kids .. snatching toys and all stuff which will drive a mother mad !!! And here is what I did ..Stopped him from taking to playarea for 2 to 3 weeks ... I realised there was something which would trigger him into beating others .. Instead I would make him play alone in the basement like ride cycle ..go on walks .. etc
That way he slowly forgot all abt beating and pinching and completely was out of habit after 3 weeks.
So you could try this.

Best of luck