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I get some relaxation when i meet u friends here...I think i may go mad soon.....I cant stand my FIL & husband anylonger....
My husband acts as if am a maid & behaves very rudely infront of his parents..My FIL is very indifferent to me coz my second SIL brought more dowry than me....He has started to behave like a human only now..but my husband is making things worst...He doesnt have time for me....I just feel like divorcing me But when i think of my son...I cant...Am so desperate & i dont know how longer i will hold my tongue shut... renu replied.
Hai dear,

I understand how it is when our own people dont treat us good. please just try to concentrate on urself first.feel how imp ur life is for u and how valuable ur life is.thats how take away the feeling of going mad.its easy said i know.unfortunately most women in our country faces.first analyse how independently u can live?
before u burst out any.be smart in marraige.think wisely before any act.
how old r u?do ur husband cares and loves ur son good?r u working?if not r u in a state to find some work or possible to get out for working?

if so,try t o take a break for keeping urself peace from all.i mean take a small job-so that u have something to other than husbnd and family.keep urself fresh and good looking and dont give much attention to ur husband.the more u listen and cry and alwas react to them-they will treat u the same.so ignore all and concentrate on urself.never give husband a feeling that u have no life without them and helpless even if u have no support from ur parents.try to be confident and i beleive every human has something or other good in them and can acheive what they want-if have confidence, dedication and hardwork.once self-esteem is gone down,we feel lost and frustrated.we should tame ourself every now and then.

hope U can feel better now after readng this and beleive in urself now.
u can live happily-its in ur hands too.

urs friend.