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I dont agree at all with both of you...

first of all you ppl tell us (girls) to grow up and dont behave like teenage or be practial and all blah blah blah.... BUT why dont these men GROW UP ever for god sake..... why in this world they need to kiss their mom 3 tms a days......

we are also human being same emotions... still living w/o our parents after marriage... shall we say that i want to see daily my moms face..... for that u guys says no no this is our culture....... ridiculous....

one hand u ppl say men are more strong than on other hand daily they need mumma pampering......

what do you think my MIL never ask what we are doing behing doors..... than why they ask when you are planning baby..... in our case we took precautions for one yr....... she asked my hubby after 2 months of marriage are you taking any precations...... imagine mother asking this frm son ...... they are more interested in our like ..... us ka bus paday toh humaray bed room may camera laga day.....

all men are hypocraites.... MIL are monster in laws...

why a boy will complain abt their in laws they bechara toh never say anything bec its their daughter' s house.... knowing that daughter MIL & SIL are big prob creators......

what are your opinions now the one & sandhya....

hh hh replied. Hi the -one,

you man will never undersatnd women feelings......

she not only asked my hubby for\" r u taking the precations\" after that she created a lot of drama that why u taking precation ..... and insulted us (me & my hubby) in front of whole family during some fight/argument that kaya budapay may bacha pada karogay..... i was 26 that tm... where as shee herself got married at the age of 32 and had her third child at the age og 42??????? what will you say to this lady???? YES I DONT HAVE ANY RESPECT FOR THIS LADY....... if you call me sick than u can ....
BUT DIL get burnt in india for dowry by MIL ......have you ever herad of any mil burnt by DIl........

wake up the_one keep aside you too goody family atmosphere and think of DIL who are suffering and see thousands of problems posted here in this board........ are we all sick.....

her own daughter taken a precation for two years for not having baby ........ in her case she said she is young and she shd enjoy life... she got married soon... whereas she is just 2 yrs younger to me.......

she created drama on gifts which my family gave her on marrige .... whereas most of the gifts were purchased by her only ... we gave cash to her... rest of the things which we purchased ... she returned it to me... and siad that your parents are beggars.... on my first karvachaut... she gave me the saree which we have given her on marriage...

the-one there are so many things happened at my house that i can' t write everything here but my frd i feel like crying now that man will never understand what a woman goes thru...

i heard my MIL saying my hubby that ... tu us par haath nahi uthata na... tabi woh itna saar chad gayii hai..... and one day my hubby slapped me....

my hubby use to love me so much but after all this fights and agruments i feel humaray realtion may distances aagaye hai..... because every tm i can' t control myself and ignore the things.... i m also short temp person... so we (me & mil/sil) end up in arguments or fights.

bye... god bless you and may god bless me too yaar....
hh
the_one replied. Lol, HH you seriously got some issues, you need some counseling. All men are hypocrites and all mothers-in-law are monster-in-law! Where the hell are you getting it? I wish you get a baby boy and once he will get married we’ll come back to you and ask how you are doing monster-in-law. I think you are the most hypocrites here.

So you are telling me that your mother-in-law is asking you “what style you enjoyed last night?” Give me a freaking break. Don’t exaggerate asking about precaution is not a big deal. She is not asking you if you have given him a head. Your statement your husband is kissing his mother 3 times a day is totally BS. You are making up that just because he is not kissing you in front of his parents. If your mother in law asked your husband after two months of married about precaution she is smart, she understands that you don’t wants to have a baby right away, she might be thinking that you need time to know each other better etc.

You have negative mind. I hope you get help for calling all mother in law as monster in law. I don’t know if you have brother or not. If you do then I feel really sorry for your mother, as your consider her as monster in law.

About your thinking that you’re in laws will put camera in your bedroom shows how sick you are. You have no respect for your in laws. A girl’s parent doesn’t say a word because her in-laws are going to create problem for their daughter, WTH? Are you living in 1800 or what? Laughing out loud, when it comes to your parent they become “Bechare” but when it is a man’s family they are all monster. Typical narrow minded Indian woman statement, you need help woman.

Every Indian male respect women because we admire and understand the courage leaving your entire family and friends for someone totally new. Accepting the fact that it is really hard for anyone to give up their family and friends and adjust with new family. Your husband is respecting you for your sacrifices, but you don’t appreciate. No matter what parents are parents and they are our elders and we should respect them. That is Indian culture. You think all men need pampering from his mother so I guess you are not going to love your son at all.

I think you are forgetting that no matter how old a mother is, her son is always a son for her. You will only understand that once you become a mother. Don’t ruin your life on a damn kiss, get some help.

Despite of insulting all mankind I am still wishing you all the best and hope you get some help. hh replied. Hi preety,

Thanks for understanding ....

fisrt when i saw \" r\" message i choose not to respose.... bec he/she might not have faced this kinda prob... so not able to understand i am going thru...

anyways i hv no complanits with r also

bye take care
hh r replied. dont ever ever post ur messages ..there are people with more serious problem..dont waste everybodies time here