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well im very upset nowadays.im 27 years old got married 2 yrs back.i had a miscarriage 6 months back and im very upset about it.

we both were eagerly waiting for this baby and then..anyways my problem is that i have lost interest in everything now.i desperately want a child.all my bhabhis and Sis in law have kids.all are elder to me,but i feel they all a so contented.I am working so I am busy but i get bore at home.My in laws are nice,but sometimes irritating...so i avoid talking to them otherwise fine.
My sis in law(hubby sis)is very pathetic.She comes to our house and wants all the freedom which she dosent get at her sasural.My MIL buys so many gifts for her daughters.i dont mind that,but if i had a child then they would have loved them also.My hubby is only son.I want to give a good child to the family.i dont like when my MIL showers soo much love to my SIL kids.im not jealous but this way SIL feels more impt than me.She never liked me very much frm beginning..but now i dont care.

i dont know what to do.we are trying for a baby but this small small irritating things at home disturb me.how should i feel happy. dont mistake me.im not jealous of anyone is just tht im not able to manage my life the way i want. Lakshmi replied. Hi
Looks like you are depressed because of the miscarriage.

You have good family. Miscarriage is very common in Pregnancy. I know one freind who had miscarriage during 7th month.

Relax.This is the best medicine. Donot see the world in a negative way. Think positive. Read books. Go to Temple. Prey. Do meditation.

Remember one thing. Pregnancy cannot happen if you put lot of pressure.

Relax and enjoy the life. Go out with your husband. Go to beach. Talk each other , love each other and try to love others too.

Stay cool and have sex of course.
You' ll have baby in your hands which will be very healthy , more sharp for sure.

You know mahabharatham , only because Gandhari and Pandu' s mother are happy in the relation with Vasishter they are blind and pale . In the other case vidhuran' s mother enjoyed the situation and he happened to be very sharp.

Not just telling the story. This is true and scientifically proved

be happy and stay cool .Thats the best medicine for you Padmaja replied. Hi,

I can understand the phase u r going through. But never name yourself as unhappy woman, which throws you into more and more unhappiness.

You have the answer in your question itself. You said, When u are blessed with a child, your MIL does same to them also.

Don' t draw a line around u in any relation. You are in guilt feeling that u don' t have a baby. Do you know something most of the MIL will have soft corner for their son' s kids. You should understand the situation what your MIL is undergoing. May be because of that she is over expressive to your SIL kids.

Instead of you thinking that your MIL does somuch for your SIL kids. You start spending and Loving those kids too. It keeps you away from your guilt feeling and makes your SIL & MIL happy. Finally one thing, it is always good for you and the baby not to carry till one year of misscarriage.

ALL THE BEST!