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i am almost 19 n half now married 3months ago ours was a love marriage and my husband works in abu dhabi, we atayed together for just about 2weeks after our maraige with inlaws after which he had to leave for work. now just 15days since i have joined him here at abu dhabi. we never had physical relations before maraige. everything was fine until i came here, we stay here just the two to us and the situation is awkward for me as my hubby will demand me not to use brassiere at home nly for goin out which is very rare(1' s a week)jus to wear d saree blouse or salwar/nightie watevr .i have breasts of size 33-34, will der b any problem in not wearing bra,will it coz biggening of breasts am worried.also i do sum excercise at home also skipping but i find myself unable to skip without bra i gets pain in breasts.any1 in situation of mine? husband demanding not to use bra? he have hide all bra..also every nite he will press suck breasts my breasts gets hard n heavy feeling..i have taken his penis inside me nly on 3 occasions aftr maraige 1nce in indya n 2ice here but am unable it hurts me a lot n i end up crying..my husband is frustrate due to this..he tels i am no use..please guide me p replied. Hi,
As u r very young in age so i would like to tell u that during sex if guy likes a particular act as in ur case ur hubby likes to play with ur breasts n alsowant u to suck his penis they find emmense pleasure in it and no matter how hard u push them they get violent n wont understand.Its better to be calm n u also try to take this casually as a way that ur husband likes to make love to u,then slowly u wont find it that bad and also if u r cooperating then he wont be madf at u n will understand n do those things less.initially u will have to be calm n try to adjust with itas then only he will understand u,if u cry then all his mood is gone n he will be more angry on u.
I hope u find this useful
p sanjana replied. Hi there..
Like nita said ur breast wont increase in size but they will change shape....they will became saggy which is not goo either. i think if its ur love marriage then ur hubby will sure understand if u tell if the reason.
about the breast sucking issue....i think some woman actually enjoy dat.it will take to for u.....but dont worry its not harm.
about the pain while having sex is common in first few dayz....try to use lubricant or oil....it will make it lil bit easy.....n still if u having problem i suggest go to doc.....she/he might give u something which will work for u....n dont worry...u guys have long life to live...just try explain each other ..if theres ne problem.
tc..

nita replied. There is some harm in not wearing bras at all. it wont coz size increase but will make breasts sag.But i donot understand why are you so doctile. if u wish to obey ur husband then do not wear undergarments while he is around in the house but wear them rest of the time.your must explain to him n make him understand that not wearing undergarments might be a turn on for him but it will have bad effect on your figure if do skipping without bra. u must talk to him about this without fighting. i m sure he will understand your akward situation n as i said you can cope up with this by at least wearing undergarments when he is out to office.