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Dear All,Dont laugh at me ,i really have a strange question,
I have ovalution problems and every month i take Ova mit tablets to increase the size of the eggs and each month i face the same problem.Doctor say another 2 days u are most fertile and have intercourse,but my husband says if the time given then he cant,this is happening form past 4 months ,every month he has erection problem only for 2 days and on the third day hez ok,iam so depressed with this ,becoz iam the one whoz taking injection ,tablets.I really dont know if this continues (His erection problem) will i be able to conceive.Becoz iam not like other ,i have ovalution problem and each cycle i have to take medicines to increase the size of egss.
Does anyone undergone the same situation,and did anyone conceive.
Please advise me as to what to do.
Thanks to all in advance
Sakshi

karishma replied. hi dear,

I can truly well understand what u r telling. Guess this happens with all the spouses who r ttc. When the doctor tells that this is the day, have relations. That same day something or the other comes up, fights or some stress and that day goes off from our hand.

So what Kshama2 said is right. Dont think abt. this. U will know when is ur fertile time even b4 ur doc tells u so. So have a nice time then, no stress, no fights, keep the mood romantic and then go ahead. Things will definitely work well for all.

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Karishma kshama2 replied. My husband also goes throgh exactly same problems as u'r husband. Exactly those 2 days we are also not able to have intercourse from 3 months.
I know how stresssfull they become when we say that we will ovulate on these days and we have to have intercourse on those days.
That is why i have decided not to give an hint of what day u r when u r most fertlie, do not converse about anything.
But regularly have intercourse, do not try to target on only those days. Do not discuss anything like this with u'r husband. Do not keep him in stress. This is the only problem they have otherwise they are fine

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kshama


They really become very stressfull and that is completely understandable, they don't have any problem. julie replied. Sorry to hear about all the things you are going through. I think your husband is having erection prob becoz of the stress to perform on those particular days. I have noticed this even with my DH that when we are trying to concieve, he is least interested in sex. So he will delay/ not want to have for many days etc. You can talk to ur hubby or you guys can go to a counsellor. Maybe ask your doctor and she can talk to ur hubby. Worst come to worst, go in for IUI- I think it bypasses the \";having sex\"; in creating babies.