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Hi Friend i am not new on this board,I have been a regular reader of this site.I day starts reading everybodys problem and giving suggestion if possible.

But today i have a problem , I am newly married just 3 months ago its a love marriage. I am a good looking girl and my hubby is not very good looking he is so so in looks .We both work in same office ,come together go together ,eat food ,snacks together. We where engaged for a years before we got married we had very healthy sex life but suddenly after marriage he has lost interest in it.After marriage we hardly had sex once or twice.I tried talking he said that all will be fine please wait ,I have actually have no complains about him we carring, loving lets me do everthing i want. Now one of my collegues use to like me a lot and unfortunately he is my Reporting boss he is of my age . Previously i use to not bother for him but now a days i have started liking him we enjoy talking ,once or twice our hands met i am feeling very weird i know its not right ,I am doing wrong with my hubby but,some where i feel i am not physically satisfied by him ,so that may be the reason.I am in Dilemma donot know what to do.

Please help me a friend replied. Hi,

I understand you are too young at maturity level. These kind of attractions will come in life all the time. When you don' t bow your head that proves your personality.

You said u & your husband are always togother i.e. coming, going, eating through out the day. If possible why don' t you try changing your work place. Which will keep you both away during day time and wait to see in the evening. It fills you with new thoughts and feelings and KEEPS AWAY FROM THESE ATTRACTIONS.

Your are so blessed that your husband is very nice, cares and loves you, where many women don' t get this. Don' t do any mistake which will never come back even if you regret.

bye.


nisha replied. hi
its a strange one.look riya this is v.unusual.It seems like u r betraying ur husband.This is just infatuation.sex is just apart of life and its not everything.u better discuss with him and get it solved as soon as possible.May be becoz of hectic work he might be away from u.u just think it before what ever u do.u told that he loves u and cares for u.I think these are the ones most of the women looking for. latha nair replied. hi
I understand u are in a dilemma.One thing i would like to tell is to do a mistake one minute is more than enough but later(regret) you need one full life time.You talk to ur husband about your problem,may be it will take little time but he will understand u sure.Till then have patience and pray to god sincerly and talk with god about ur problems,sure u will get a relief.