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Name: archie

Dear Karishma,
I am sorry to hear failure. I have known you as a very supportive girl around here. Deep down I feel being here quite often you are paying too much attention to ttc process than you should. I am not lecturing or not trying to hurt your feelings.
Personally I think, it's too much to bear at the end of each cycle. You get frustrated and upset to notice menses. I know you are a brave girl and can console still how about taking break from all those who discuss about ttc. Trust me it will really reduce the stress and you might not pay as much attention. I know the girls around here are inseperable part of your life and you would hate to take break but what if this is what proves to be best for you and process. Of course enjoy intimacy and pleasure of love. Also if you believe in procedures being carried on you forget about ovulation and troubles you may have (medical). Just believe in one thing it will happen the day it has to. By paying attention or knowing if you missed period is not going to help ease anxiety or make difference to process.
Try not to even peak on to this forum for a few months and realize the difference. Of course this is the best place to share your feelings and get enough of moral support from the couples in the same boat. But is not it sometime knowing appearance of menses and others facing same trouble get you worried a lot. Trust me unknowingly stress does it's job.
Good luck
Archie

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