Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi first of all wanted thank all of you for welcoming me and being so supportive.

I am on a new cycle today,thought as usual that last month was the big month ,anyway it did not work.I have irregular cycles keeps me guessing every month.

We have been trying for the past 7 months with no results.

Had been to an RE sometime back,but since he said that both of us were fine we thought why not try it on our own.So for the last 3 months we tried it on our own.We can't even start our new treatment in the current location b'coz there is a chance that we may go back to India next month.

Every month has been a disappointment .

And my friend just had a baby in Dec 2005.But after having a baby she keeps asking me when i am going to have mine.It gets sooo frustrating sometimes.As long as she did not have a baby she used to keep shouting at anybody who used to ask her about having a baby.But now she is doing the same irritating thing.

I also know that when I go to India the pressure is going to build up even further.

I wish that all of us get our little angels this year.

Here's wishing all of us. mina replied. Hi

Don't worry much about how long it is taking. It will happen when it's the right time for it :-)
Worrying only puts more stress and sends your hormones hayware. Just leave it for a couple of months, and get yourself absorbed into some other thoughts. It really helps. Miracles are just waiting to happen. You just have to look the other way ;-).

Another thing about your friend, I know how depressing it can be. Even very nice and sensible people behave objectionably in these issues. Like why is someone not getting married, and why is someone not having a baby yet. They don't understand how much they may be hurting. And strangely, some of them have experienced this themselves.

Try to be nice to her, but don't take it for too long. Because this is making you sad. Tell her that a baby is a gift to cherish, it will come when it's time, and she must be knowing that of all persons.

Take care
Bye kshama2 replied. one more thing i missed to write that friend of u'rs does she irritate u too much? anyways do not care for all these comments. Just be sure that GOD has set up a time for everybosy and that u'rs is coming tooo soon
kshama2 replied. Hi SM,

thaks for u'r wishes. Also goos to know that u might go back to india. Since RE told u there is no problem, that is very good. But do consult doctor of why u r having iregular periods.

I'am also waiting for AF, yesterday i was supposed to get my AF so today i'm waiting for that to turn up. I'm preparing myself to cry when AF comes that is all,

good luck
kshama