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Trying since long:An update from my side

2006-03-23

Name: Simba Hi girls
Just an update from my side. I had a D&C yesterday and now am back at home. So it's all over! I would have been 10.5 weeks yesterday. Hopefully we will get some answers as they are going to do analysis on the fetus.

I thank you all for your support. We are going to avoid TTC for sometime now. I need time to greive and I am not ready emotionally for a pregnancy.
Meeting with a RE next month.

I know I will have a baby ... just not a 2006 baby anymore. So have to wait for my time. I am looking forward to the break from TTC.

Take care girls. Hope things work out for you all andd you give us good news soon.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Simba

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2006-03-25

Name: Sunshine
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Hi Sim....

Just wanted to remind you that the Big G is watching over you... Your angel probably had to go back coz it wasn't the right time for him/her yet..
You are an amazingly strong person.. And I know you can be feeling really weak right now... and totally drained.. But that's just temporary.. And you've got to remember that it's temporary, God will listen to your prayers..
Take care and God bless you.
Much love,
Sunshine

2006-03-23

Name: karish
Subject:

hi simba

hi dear,

You are a real brave girl. You gotta be like that dear. Just think this baby was not meant to b with u!!!

Dont worry things will definitely work fine for u.

I went to the Church yesterday and prayed specially for all at ttc board. Hope Mother Mary hears my prayers.

Do take care. Am happy that you are taking a break. u need it to baby!! Dont be upset and pls. stay positive. Things are gonna b rosy for u soooooooon!!

Luv u lots,

Karishma

2006-03-23

Name: kshama2
Subject:

Hi Simba

Hi Simba,
Simba u'r words are so true. We really can't plan on these things. We really can't say anythings, its not in our hand. But many of my friends planned and when they decided to have baby the way they had planned they got pregnnt as soon as they started trying within 4 months. This is one thing that hurts me, and then i also know that everybody's life is different and it is not in our control.
I really like u'r attitude of understanding this and bieng brave.
I'm sure u will have baby soon. Just take a good break now, don't worry too much.

Good luck
luv
kshama

2006-03-23

Name: hopingfortejas
Subject:

Hey

Hi,
though i dont think i have replied yo your posts , i have read all your posts till now ...

my heart goes out to you ... i have not become pregnant yet in my try of 1.5 yrs but i can understand your feelings ..

taking a break is certainly a good idea ... make sure you have rootcaused the problem before trying again ...

i like your positive attitude and i will pray that you have a 2007 baby :)

good luck and keep us posted ,
-P

2006-03-23

Name: simba
Subject:

Thanks

Hey Pari,
Thanks for your words of support. I think it's God's way of telling me not plan for the future. See my husband and I are really people who plan our lives ....
We got married 5.5 yrs ago, came to this country (US) and did not want to have kids till we settled down. We got our Green card, bought a house here, had our parents make all the trips to the US, took all the vacations to european countries etc, got settled in our respective jobs and then we were ready for a baby , both emotionally and financially. So after 5 yrs of our marriage we started TTC. We got pregnant 3 times (2 chemical pregnancies, and 1 real pregnancy , but mc) in a span of 9 months. So I think it's God's way of telling us not to plan this aspect of our life. He will give us a baby when the time is right, 2007, 2008 ... who knows. But i know someday I will have a child and will wait for that day!
Take care. Will let you know what the RE says,
Simba

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