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Name: radhika

Please tell me how do you know if a person is a troblemaker or not,either you have to have premonition,or you have to know the person for a really long time.
You know everyone of us in our lives have gone thru such problems with friends who show their true colours only after the initial good feeling the friendship wears out.
Some people try to cling on to one or two friends and sometimes it also has to do with their upbringing (as in overly protective parents).
How can you blame the victim for the evilness and cunnigness of the culprit \" mrfriend\" .
Most of us human beings at the beginning of every relationship hide our true colors.Its only later after knowing each others weaknesses that we try and make use of our friends or take them for granted.
If you cannot offer any valuable suggestion the least you can do is not bring down the person who is at her wits ends to help herself.I know of many friends who happen to be people pleaser and always try to do the right things,it happens.
But A mother who tries to avoid her responsibilities by dumping her kid on her friend ought to be nicely taught where she belongs and such things should be brought to light.
This is unjust on your part to blame shubha for some crooked friends mistakes.

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