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I am a married woman. I am 7 months pregnant now. I have been facing this situation for the last 3 weeks. Earlier in my pregnancy, my husband appeared to love me more than ever. But since the last few weeks, he seems to have lost interest in me. I have got bigger. But that is nothing more than normal. During pregnancy, people get bigger. It has been days and weeks since he touched me with that love and passion he used to have before. He comes for intercourse. But even that too becomes very formal. I am becoming too machine-like. I don't feel interested since we are not even kissing the way we should be.

Now it is like we are just two strangers under a roof. He shows love to his kid inside my belly. Is he going to be like this for ever? I want him to love me more during this time. Sometimes some odd and bad thoughts come to mind. Like what to get attraction from men. Sometimes I feel so sexy and I want him to touch me. My husbad is not attracted to my body/mind.

I need some advice. Thanking you.
sweety replied. I am married for 3 yrs, now i am 3 months pregnant, my married life was great with little ups & downs, but now things have changed a lot my husband is not at all interested in me as before, i think we developed this huge gap in between us with the pregnancy, he is always busy with his work or seeing more TV at nights. He is not huging me or kissing me as before, he is also not careing for me, i am doing the whole house work, but still he expects me to do extra work for him like giving him coffee in the morning, but i have this badly morning sickness. I am feeling so sick, lonely and depressed, ladies pl. help me to get my husband back to normal, and let me know if i did any thing wrong. friend replied. first of all congratulations!
now i tell you u are in 7 month probably ur husband is worried abt showing passion.he might be thinking like u may get tired or it hurts the baby inside you.some ladies dont feel like having sex and some are just opposite. i tell you all this mixed and negative thoughts for you is just nothing but harmonal changes.it is very common during this time you get mood fluctuatuions and irritation for samll things.
first thing sit and talk to your husband ask him the change in his behaviour in a pleasant manner.also express your feelings to him.there is nothing wrong in this.you try to be relaxed do breathing exercises.i wish you a very safe delivery.all the best.be cheerful and happy all the time.