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I had started bleeding in my 8th week of preg went to the emerg they made me wait for 9 hrs(i live in canada)and asked me to come next day for an ultrasound.that day morning i had heavy bleeding with a big blood clot(no cramps here)after the ultrasound they told my featus is still alive but heart beat is low. I came home that evening then started having heavy bleeding with few more clots with cramps..(this time i'm quite sure I miscarried).Now I dont know what to do. I know if I visit the doc she's gonna say the same that i miscarried..I feel nothing at this moment..I just want to know How long will i bleed and whats next??? why this happened I took really good care of myself.took alot of bedrest dint had sex, ate right...but still!!! can anyone take some time and reply?..I woudld really appreciate that. Baby replied. Hi Uma,
Consult ur doctor soon it is better for ur health otherwise there will more problem to U.I Know it is Hard time for u .But be strong,have hope in god.
Pratheeksha replied. Rather than go by your intution, please go visit your doctor soon. If your pregnancy is viable, they will probably put you on complete bed-rest and give you medicines to continue safely. I've been through the same experience, so I'm telling you its best to get medical attention at the earliest.

If you have miscarried, as you think you have, they'll check it out and do a D&C if required. If you don't get this done on time, infection could set in and cause adverse effects to your health. Either way, please don't wait for nature to take its toll.

Some things are just meant to happen, and don't ever blame yourself for it. No amount of eating well,taking rest etc will help if you were destined to miscarry. It's nature's way of rejecting what was not formed properly and 1 in every 5 pregnancies end this way.I know no words can comfort you, I was on the very edge myself but researching more on this after it hapenned to me taught me that its a common occurence and it can happen to anyone, however healthy they are or how much ever they take rest..Hang in there...and don't despair.Forget it as fate and keep your spirits up. It'll be alright next time.