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Hi Friends,
I am a married woman from 2 years and from last 5 months we are staying separately. Now thing is I am really confused, how to behave with him. If I keep a regular contact, I find it very funny what to talk about. we dont have anything common to talk or rather should I say we are scared of talking as other person might not feel comfortable /take offence. But If I dont keep contact then I am worried that we should not get habbit of staying like this. I am really confused. Please help me. I want to save this relationship. I want him to take the first step towards reconcilation/staying together. Please let me know how I should proceed.

Cheers,
-Arch RADHA replied. HI THERE,
I BELIEVE WAITING FOR HIM TO APPROACH IS SIMPLY WASTE OF TIME .INSTEAD PLAN A CANDLE LIGHT DINNER FOR HIM AT HOME, COOK ALL HIS FAV FOOD WITH SOME WINE N MUSIC N U LOOKING SEDUCTIVE WILL BE LIKE CHERRY ON THE CAKE--AFTER ALL IN MARRIAGE SEX PLAYS AN IMPORTANT ROLE,THE MORE U R COMFORTABLE IN BED THE MORE U' LL BE IN PERSON varun replied. If you are really interested and its worth saving your marriage, you may propose going for a Marriage Counsellor to him. Let him think it over and get back to you.

Waiting for each other to make the first move may not lead anywhere and in the process you may be crossing many points of NO RETURN. Unless of course that is your intension!

Do keep contact, non-intrusive but genuine concern oriented, I hope you both still retain your concerns for each other. Keep posting as you progress otherwise you can not really receive help from a board like this.