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Name: Sweety

Hey All,
I had recieved help from you all a few months ago about the starting fresh blog. I just wanted some help from everyone here. Its not a topic related to sex or MIL' s but hopefully I will recieve good input.
Here it goes...I had gotten out of a relationship no thanks to our parents who hooked us up in the first place. Well a month after our parents came back to us and said you guys are ok to get back with each other. As confusing as it sounds it was more confusing for me. Well anyway while we were seperate he hooked up with a girl adn she stuck to him like crazy. Now he wants me to be his soulmate but is unable to get rid of the other one. I said its all me or nothing. I mean technically I am the first woman and she is the other woman. I stopped talking to him because it was just a betrayal of my trust and he hasn' t cut ties with this girl. So abou a week ago I get a beautiful present in the mail for V day that had the whole nine yards with a card, candy, and even a heart diamond necklace. Maybe this would make other girls weak in the knees but his love means more than material affection. I called him (after alsmost 3 months) and told him how everything was beautiful. He said that he has talked to his mom and wants me to marry him and all this crap and I was starting to believe him. He says he stoppecd seeing the other girl....well I call him today in the morning to wish him Happy V day and apparently she shows up at his apartment. I live long distance and he told her that he is with me but the girl doenst get it. What on earth do I do? I love the man and I am glad he was honest about everything that happened. He has even made the initiative to talk to my parent.s After things get this far...the other girl doesn' t know what let it go means. I know shes after his wealth and family name because he has told me how she always nagged about expensive dinners and gifts and would ask him to pay for all her expenses and take her shopping. Thats all old news but he told me so that we were clear about everything. I don' t know what to do about him or her!!!! Please help!

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