Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi,
I have joined the forum last week - have been married for 6 years now, and we have been trying for the last 2 years. Have been through a laproscopy, where the doctor diagnosed cervical stenosis - closed mouth of uterus, then I underwent another surgery to get that opened, and then an HSG. HSG shows that right tube is blocked and left is open. In the last month, 'ovulation' happened in the left side (follicle became dominant in the left side) - we tried getting pregnant, but no luck. This month, it is the right side thats dominant - I am wondering, that if the right tube is blocked, how will the egg pass through? Does anyone have a similar experience?
Also, I have no clue what the next step would be? In the sense, how many months do we need to try like this, and what would be the further course of action! It is very difficult to lead an uncertain life - every month we hope, and we need to arrange our life around the 'ovulation' time! Everyone tells me that I should stop thinking about it, and then it will happen! But isnt it impossible to stop thinking about it?
Manisha.
pr replied. Dear manisha

Dont feel bad atall..u r only trying fr the last two months but we are trying since we have got married and its 4yrs now..i have also undergone laproscopy once where in the doc said everything is normal..but no result..then i changed the doc who did some USGS..ONLY WASTE OF MONY..they could not detect anythig wrong..she says have patience and dont worry..now for the last 1 yr i have left all the treatement..but still i have faith in god and i knw he would surely answer all our cries once ..its only time that matters..i knw its easy to say difficult to forgt this worry esp when u find all ur freinds around are getting pregnant quite normally and we still dont have any scene..dont wrry dear.be positive and think positive.and see u would have every positive..may god bless us all to be soon seen in the expecting parents group..

ok baby..cheer up..and keep urself happy

loads of baby dust
Sunshine replied. Hi Manisha...
We're all in the same boat out here luv, living month after month, week after week, in some cases, year after year, in uncertainity & hope & sometimes hopelessness & frustration.
Rightly said, it is impossible to avoid thinking about it. The idea is to educate yourself with what's happening within your body. And try to be as stress free as possible. So remember to enjoy all the good things in life at the same time. Be mentally & physically healthy. That's important.
And anytime u are low & tired of it all, or just need a shoulder to cry on, We're Here.

Much love,
-Sunshine