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I am extremely concerned with the growing sexual references and graphics on T.V, newspapers, internet etc. How do we prevent children from this titilation? Instead of concentrating on studies they make boyfriends. My sister's daughter is 13 and I spotted her holding hands of her school colleague. I told this to my sister who scolded her so badly that my neice has stopped talking to me!!!
My 6 year old son asks me about kissing when he sees this on T.V? And what these young girls wear was unthinkable 4-5 years ago. You can see the bra straps and panties through the low jeans and short tops? What is happening?
I have lived in Australia for a year and promptly came back as girls are actually walking around on roads in undergarments only! Will our country also be like this in future? xyz replied. We should explain them as it is said that a child lessons starts from mothers lap & family.
From the begining avoid them looking all these films & tell them that all this happens only in films & not in real life,everyday life is different from filmi duniya.
Always keep on repeating these words to crave it in our childrens mind.
Avoid them wearing such clothes ,tell them these type of clothes will not be allowed in our house.
From the begining we should put them on salwar kameez buy them a new one everymonth if we can afford.
If you see any girl in salwar kameez praise her that how obedient she looks & you would also like her wearing this type.
Turn her attention towards some hobby so she becomes less interested in this world of glamour.
It is all Bollywood spoiling our girls & boys. N.Y.C. replied. Even though..it is a disgrace! You can not change the world.

All that anyone can do is: tell their own children, to not behave or act in such way.

Parents are the only ones that can teach their child about the good and the bad. With plenty of love and respect, hopefully we'll get something good in return as the child grows up. concerned mom too replied. i too feel sad seeing the growing children falling prey to all this nuiances. but we are helpless coz if v go to advice them they will do it behind our back. and u can stop ur child but not the other all the time u cant gaurd ur child too. This is all becoz of singular families and lot of pocket money and luxuiers given to the child. They will never know what is hard work and the fruits of hard work. We as mothers should do something ..... i want to do but i am blank what to do??? where to start????????????