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Hi Archie
How r u and Advait and all ur family members?
Me nowadays not fine mentally.Fed up of waiting every month. God only knows when my day will come.Archie khup vait vatta me atleast friends barobar majja man mokalla karu shakte pan hubby dear to tar konashi bollu pan nahi shakkat majyashi bolayacha tar tyalla asa vatta mala vait vatel.I feel very bad for him and here all of my friends r having kids.when he carry them or play with them i can feel from his eyes how much he is missing having his own child we will complete 4 yrs of our marriage soon.First 2 yrs we did not wanted child as we wanted to spend time with each other.Nantar jehwa try kela ani pregnant jale tar with complication.Kadhi kadhi swatacha khup raag yeto mala kadhich asa vatala navata but today i don`t know why i m feeling very bad and sad.So thought about u need positive words from u.
Archie maje 18th la periods yewun gele.Mala asa vicharayacha ahe ki ha jo ovulation period asto na tya period madhe jar every day intercourse kela tar chalel ka.ki alternate days kela pahije.Pls mala guide kara And sorry to bother u
Lots of love & blessings to Advait.
Take Care
Sangeeta


archie replied. Sangeeta,
I understand your pain and been through there also witnessed many.
It's normal what you are going through.
since your last menses were on 18th today on the 28th you are on CD11 and I think this is the great time, if your cycle between 28 to 30 days. Plan intercourse once a 24 hours for 4-5 days and then don't intercourse, try to take things easy and not to stress or overdo at home.

Tell your spouse that it's normal and that him getting stressed will affect his sperm count, which is equally important in ttc process. He must enjoy life to fullest and intercourse even around ovulation should be like a pleasure.

you should stay in bed for 30-40 minutes after intercourse, make sure your legs are elevated and that you don't move while this period.

Once ovulation period is over read and watch stuff that will keep you in light spirit also listen to music and remember to eat only at home.

archie
karishma replied. hi sangeeta,

kashala vichaar karath rahate. Aapan hya jagat kahi konacha nuksaan kelela nahi na, so nothing bad will happen to us too!!!

I know how u wud b feeling as i am also married for 5 yrs. now but no respite. sometimes mala pan tuzhya saarkha vichaar yeta manath, but then i think might b God has something great in store for us, what say??

But this board does make people strong to hold on to our sorrows.

Dev apla aikat aahe ani apan sagle ithun due date board madhe laukarath laukar nighat zaanaar. mark my words.

Dont go into depression and stay Positive.

I think my marathi wasnt that bad enuf, right?? eh eh!!!

luv n loads of baby dust on u and all of us.

Karishma