Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hi everybody,
i am trying for a second child since 14 mnt but in vain.had done follicle scanning 6 mnts ago and doc had suggested for clomid.so since last 2 cycles had clomid but again in vain i had lots of hopes when i took clomid.in fact was even afraid of having twins as had read lots about it effects,but this did not work.my cycle since 1 yr is very regular i mean 27 or 28 days only in 3 mnts was 25 days but this is also normal then what is the problem i dont understand.i am 33 and will turn 34 after 2mnts.want to try before i hit 35 infact want to get baby before that but i dont know what is GODS wish .was too much upset so thought of just writing on this board,i almost read every alternate day the messages on this board infact was even active last yr but since no developement on my side am not writng but today thought to share with everyone.

i do tell my hubby but it is ok for him he is not at all sad he is saying we have 1 that is ok but i tell him each individual has its place and for a mother wanting a 2nd one and 1st one is same.the feeling of wanting your own child is equal whther it is 1st or 2nd.i do think sometimes many girls on this board who are trying for 1st since long time how they must be feeling even more than me at that time i think may be they require their bundle of joy in their arms more than me and always tell GOD 1st u bless them with their cute little babies and i always keep everybody in my prayers before asking HIM for 2nd one.that time i tell my self GOD no problem if u dont want to give me 2nd dont give i am very happy with 1 but 1st give evrybody their darlings and fulfill everybody's wishes and make each and every woman a mother on earth and let her experience her motherhood like u gave me a chnce to experience.

anyway good luck to all those who are trying and baby dust to all of u.was too much uset so thought to share little.thank u in advane to listen and read my message.
neena. Pallavi replied. I read your message . I have registered on this site a few minutes before so that even i could share my worry with all.
Dont worry I am 32 yrs and since i had a late marriage at the age of 28 and in the process of getting settled nicely in the new place, banglore, we didnt go for baby for 2 years.i was working and too starined .Now since last 1 year i am trying for baby ,but failed .For this i ahve left my job so that stress and strain is completely out of my life and mind .I consulted the doctor and have done the follicular scan this month , she has suggested for an injection which will definately help me in my attempt to be a mom. Monday i will be going in for the same. you can talk to your gync about the injection if she can prescribe you.May be that will help you in your being a proud mom again.She has told me to be tension free too so in case you are too much worrying about this reason also leave it aside njoy with ur kid and hubby , just be relaxed and i am sure it will help.
All the best to u