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Name: Poonam Prem

Hi everyone,

Wanted to know how many of u...those who have jobs give ur full salary to ur hubby's after knowing few things which i realised....
I used to give him full of my salary during our first year of marriage....to which during fights he said that if u have given me salary u have had food 4 times a day...so think like that...Moreover he has never till date bought anything in my name...i mean to say property or say anything...everything is in his name....he also put fake signature in one of my post office savings account and without me knowing made it a joint account.After all these incidents i stopped giving my salary to him as i feel very insecure...he does not buy anything for me when i require and says that its money waste...i have to buy everything for me to satisfy my need....i share with him the household expenditure....and also our servants salary....he always threatens to leave me...and has created an issue saying that my parents have not given any dowry to him....though its true..:-( ours was luv marriage and my parents were agaianst it..so they did not support us...to which i also feel dishearted...but then wht to do....he says the whole grudge he will finish on me...listening to all this i really feel like leaving him...but i hae a child/?????????no idea...he says that all girls give their salary to their hubby to which i said they r not like u.....he s a cheater..pls advice me and do share ur expe...also

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