Relationships  Discussion Forum

Thank you all for your sincere advices. I appreciate it. I know that it was my fault that I let it happen for 4 days, because I was weak, could not control myself and was scared too. I did not know how to react either.
But the problem is that if I tell anyone including my husband, they all are going to blame me that why did I let it happen for 4 days and why did I not stop him the first day or why did I not tell anyone sooner. So, I am just going to forget and forgive and will be better prepared if he does the same thing next. And he normally behaves that he is “shareef most” guy in this world, like respecting elders, doing pujas and all that. So, no one was going to belive me.
I told my elder sister about it and she asked me to keep a pepper spray with me and next time if comes then use it…and tell everyone that you thought it was some thief or someone trying to molest. I am just scared to lock the room when I am by myself. There is a central lock in the house that no can come in from outside.
xyz replied. i think you should take a very strong step. by fearing with the situation u r simply worseing your life and situation and commiting sucide daily. just to warn you if u r fearing of losing the reationship it may also happen later on but the diffrence would be that , later, if any how every one get to know about this they may blame u that u encouraged him to do so . it would be better to take your husband in your confidence and tell him about every thing . if he doesn't believe you take your parants under your confidence. if you think that its a matter of ghar ki izzat than mind it ghar ki izzat ke liye sirf aurat hee responsible nahi hoti .
d replied. hey shud nt u be locking the door when u are with in laws. U are inviting trouble by not doing it. I always lock my door when i am with in laws .You never know who might enter.With or without my hubby. when your bil came into your room first time and touched your head you shud have locked the room next time. I agree u are young and must be scared. But you are inviting trouble by not locking. Next time god forbid your bil goes to extreme. what will u tell your husband.He will never believe u .Even i used to be scared of stayin alone in the house first.i dont live with my in laws.but my husband used to go out of station rarely. But i learnt to stay alone.You shud most certainly lock the door before anything harmful happens to you. what will u tell your in laws and your hubby and your parents. they will tell u shud have locked the door.
as far as your bil its a shameful act of his.he shud be ashamed of himself.you are his bhabhi. he shudnt be touching u in this way.
post back. try it.