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Hi,
I have been married for 2 Yrs and have a baby now.My Husband is very good and loves me a lot.His problem is that he likes chatting and watching porn.He chats a lot with other woman online which i dont like.He chats about Sex.He even tries to chat with my friends who are sexy.He manages to get their Id's and chats with them with some other ID.If i fight with him he says i never let him live his own life.Whenever he is at home he is busy chatting and watching porn online.Im depressed pls advise as to what i should do.In everything else he is a Wonderful person and loves me like a baby.My other fear is that he might be having sex with me thinking about other woman and the woman he chats with.Am i possesive or Should i let him continue. SONYA replied. Dear Vaishnavi,

You should be lucky. Think about it.....
He is not abusing you. He is not cheating
on you. He is a good husband and a great
father. And on top of that he is at home.

I think you are just jealous. In my
case: I am jealous of my husband...
whenever his friend call him(she is
female..by the way!)--I hate that bitch!

But......deep down in my heart. I can't
let this little thing that I hate so
much about him, interfer with what we
have together. Nobody is flawless.

Your hubby is tired from a long day at
work. This is his free time. Let him
enjoy it. Please allow him to have some
time for himself......just keep your
eyes and ears open. If you feel that
he is being too excited.....

as his wife...we have every right to
help him stay on track!

As for the fantasies....It's just a way
to get us aroused. I am sure that my
husband is probably picturing himself
with some one, too. But, I really don't
care. Because he can't touch that
person. ( I do it sometime, too)

take care