hi all
I am a long timer in this board. Have been ttc for over 2 yrs. I have undergone all the necessary tests like progestron, HSG, clomid and etc....still no results. The docs cant find any problem and are asking us to relax and not get tensed. infact i am not as i have a full time job to occupy my time but rite now i am just down in the dumps. my 4th wedding anniversary is coming up and everyone who has married in and around the same time as me have at least 1 kid.... usually i am a very positive person to whom others come for a shoulder to cry on but for the past 2 weeks ( after having heard abt the pregnacy and births of some of my very close friends and seeing the baby photos) i feel so depressed. its not knowing what the problem is thats making me wild. I know there are many who are in this board with problems but without knowing the problem its like taking pills for a disease u dont know!!
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I am a long timer in this board. Have been ttc for over 2 yrs. I have undergone all the necessary tests like progestron, HSG, clomid and etc....still no results. The docs cant find any problem and are asking us to relax and not get tensed. infact i am not as i have a full time job to occupy my time but rite now i am just down in the dumps. my 4th wedding anniversary is coming up and everyone who has married in and around the same time as me have at least 1 kid.... usually i am a very positive person to whom others come for a shoulder to cry on but for the past 2 weeks ( after having heard abt the pregnacy and births of some of my very close friends and seeing the baby photos) i feel so depressed. its not knowing what the problem is thats making me wild. I know there are many who are in this board with problems but without knowing the problem its like taking pills for a disease u dont know!!
Sunshine replied. Shanti, I too have been married for over 4 years.. and keep getting friendly \";advice\"; from everyone who thinks its high time we had kids (as if we didn;t know!)
The worst part is even I find myself so mentally affected that I suspected my mil (who is like my own mom) of gossiping about me... Lucky for me that they are very understanding.. even my hubs, though he did get upset...he has still remained supportive.. Sometimes I think that these hormonal medicines are making me crazy...everyone who got married around the same time as us have atleast one kid! and even ones who got married after us!
but that's life. No one said it would be easy and no one said it would be fair...
All we can do is stay strong.. give and get loads of love. And ofcourse, vent out our negative thoughts here with each other!
I was a lil low y;day... I was watching the show \";Friends\"; most of u may be knowing about it...when one of the characters Pheobe acts as a surrogate mom for her half-brother and has triplets...she wants to just keep one... but it's not possible... And the expression on her face...when she is holding them, and talking to them...Gosh! it made me just cry...
But today I have bounced back..and want to bask is God's glory and sunshine :)
Take care,
With love,
Sunshine
karishma replied. hi dear,
I hate to say this, but welcome to this board.
Dont worry all will b fine dear. Just give some time and pls. stay positive. I am ttc for the past 5.5 yrs. just imagine my state. Things are fine with me also but only that i hv PCOS. But i feel thats ok. Every test of mine's done, so doc has also told me to stay cool and dont take tension. I know its easy to say so. But since i hv gone thru all these things and friends and cousins giving good news earlier than u and who hvn't been married for as long as u r, seriously makes u feel like dying. I feel so too. But sometimes i feel rather than having an abnormal baby, Hope No one has so, its better this way naaa. All my friends of this board feel i am toooo full of positive energy. But seriously only the wearer of the shoe knows where it hurts/pinches. So i know all u girls do feel the same as i feel. Even i feel sad and feel like ending this non-meaningful life...... But i know God is watching us and is gonna give us our share of joy soooooooooon!!!
Just hv faith in God Almighty and believe me he is hearing all our cries and tears.
My very close cousin is due any moment. and she got married after me also that she was ttc for 3-4 yrs. but God has blessed her. I sometimes feel, Y me??? But when i come to this site and vent out my feelings in front of all the wonderful girls, i really feel rest assured. Every one in this board is going thru all this agony n all want a shoulder to cry. So we at this board are always there to give them that shoulder.
Dont worry, girl. Things will definitely work well for u. You will always be in my prayers.
Passing u loads and loads of baby dust and on all of us too!!
Whenever u feel low try to come to this site and vent ur feelings, trust me, u will really find solace in reading all ur answers to ur qs. from all wonderful girls.
luv,
karishma
bharathi replied. HI Shanthi,
Even i'am TTC from 2 years. I completely understand what u r feeling.
I have only one ovary and one tube, u don't have any problem. So i'am sure u will have baby. Keep hopes that u will have baby like others. I'am keeping all my hopes this month to see what happens.
Bharathi
hopingfortejas replied. Hey,
I have also been TTC for the past 1.5 yrs, no success yet, yep, this forum is indeed a good place to vent out your feelings :)
One of my best friends is expecting anytime now and though i feel very happy for her , it does put a pang of disappointment in my heart when i speak with her ..
Dont worry, things will be fine ...
so do you ovulate every month properly? and did u get your husband's sperm count checked ? i guess one more they do is post coital test to see if the sperm survivies inside ?
Anyway, wishing you luck and keep us posted ..
PLZ FEEL FREE TO VENT OUT YOUR FEELINGS ON THIS BOARD, WE ARE ALL THERE TO HEAR YOU ...!! :)
-P
simba replied. Hi Shanti,
I sort of know how you feel. We have been trying in 6 months with 2 early miscarriages.
So hang in there and things will happen when the time is right. don't mind me asking but Did you get your husband checked ? It's important he gets tested too. I know what your going through. We are married 5 years now, ... started ttc after 4.5 years thinking I'll have a baby right away ! But god has a plan for each one of us. He will take us through it. Be positive and our day will come too.
Take care,
Simba
IB replied. Hii Shanthi,
Though I have been trying to conceive only for the past three months i get very frustrated when it dosent happen. I can understand how you feel.. hang in there... your day is fast approaching... dont worry. .... try and be positive... i know its easier said than done but we all have no other choice. dont worry things will work out at the earliest & praying to god to answer to ur prayers.
IB
Malathi replied. Hi, though i am ttc only from the past 5 months, I can understand what u r going thru. My advice to u is to start life afresh from ur anniversary, that is nearing. Btb 'Happy Anniversary' in advance, even I am celebrating my 1st anniversary this month end. I think u need to relax that's the best medicine. I know it hurts and u feel everybody in the world is having a baby and why not me!!!! Probably this is ur testing time, ur positive attitude is being put to test. Pray, do it on the right days and just relax, good things will follow. Also, indulge urself in some activity as well. We all on this board are always there for u. I shall include u in my prayers.
2005-10-29
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Name: Sunshine Subject: Hi Shanti,
Shanti, I too have been married for over 4 years.. and keep getting friendly \";advice\"; from everyone who thinks its high time we had kids (as if we didn;t know!)
The worst part is even I find myself so mentally affected that I suspected my mil (who is like my own mom) of gossiping about me... Lucky for me that they are very understanding.. even my hubs, though he did get upset...he has still remained supportive.. Sometimes I think that these hormonal medicines are making me crazy...everyone who got married around the same time as us have atleast one kid! and even ones who got married after us!
but that's life. No one said it would be easy and no one said it would be fair...
All we can do is stay strong.. give and get loads of love. And ofcourse, vent out our negative thoughts here with each other!
I was a lil low y;day... I was watching the show \";Friends\"; most of u may be knowing about it...when one of the characters Pheobe acts as a surrogate mom for her half-brother and has triplets...she wants to just keep one... but it's not possible... And the expression on her face...when she is holding them, and talking to them...Gosh! it made me just cry...
But today I have bounced back..and want to bask is God's glory and sunshine :)
Take care,
With love,
Sunshine
2005-10-29
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Name: karishma Subject: hi shanti
hi dear,
I hate to say this, but welcome to this board.
Dont worry all will b fine dear. Just give some time and pls. stay positive. I am ttc for the past 5.5 yrs. just imagine my state. Things are fine with me also but only that i hv PCOS. But i feel thats ok. Every test of mine's done, so doc has also told me to stay cool and dont take tension. I know its easy to say so. But since i hv gone thru all these things and friends and cousins giving good news earlier than u and who hvn't been married for as long as u r, seriously makes u feel like dying. I feel so too. But sometimes i feel rather than having an abnormal baby, Hope No one has so, its better this way naaa. All my friends of this board feel i am toooo full of positive energy. But seriously only the wearer of the shoe knows where it hurts/pinches. So i know all u girls do feel the same as i feel. Even i feel sad and feel like ending this non-meaningful life...... But i know God is watching us and is gonna give us our share of joy soooooooooon!!!
Just hv faith in God Almighty and believe me he is hearing all our cries and tears.
My very close cousin is due any moment. and she got married after me also that she was ttc for 3-4 yrs. but God has blessed her. I sometimes feel, Y me??? But when i come to this site and vent out my feelings in front of all the wonderful girls, i really feel rest assured. Every one in this board is going thru all this agony n all want a shoulder to cry. So we at this board are always there to give them that shoulder.
Dont worry, girl. Things will definitely work well for u. You will always be in my prayers.
Passing u loads and loads of baby dust and on all of us too!!
Whenever u feel low try to come to this site and vent ur feelings, trust me, u will really find solace in reading all ur answers to ur qs. from all wonderful girls.
luv,
karishma
2005-10-30
#3
Name: Simti Subject: you touched my heart
Hi Karishma and everyone
Your message touched my heart. i don't know how can u think so positive and balanced? I salute u for that.
I am on this board after a long gap. when I discovered this site, i was so relaxed b/c i came to know that I am not the only one. but it's true that we have to hang on there. v r trying from last 3 years and no result so far. Doctor's says unexplained fertility. so we r witing now(that's all u can do )
Good luck to all of u on this board and lots of baby dust on you.
2005-10-28
#4
Name: bharathi Subject: hi
HI Shanthi,
Even i'am TTC from 2 years. I completely understand what u r feeling.
I have only one ovary and one tube, u don't have any problem. So i'am sure u will have baby. Keep hopes that u will have baby like others. I'am keeping all my hopes this month to see what happens.
Bharathi
2005-10-28
#5
Name: hopingfortejas Subject: Hi Shanti
Hey,
I have also been TTC for the past 1.5 yrs, no success yet, yep, this forum is indeed a good place to vent out your feelings :)
One of my best friends is expecting anytime now and though i feel very happy for her , it does put a pang of disappointment in my heart when i speak with her ..
Dont worry, things will be fine ...
so do you ovulate every month properly? and did u get your husband's sperm count checked ? i guess one more they do is post coital test to see if the sperm survivies inside ?
Anyway, wishing you luck and keep us posted ..
PLZ FEEL FREE TO VENT OUT YOUR FEELINGS ON THIS BOARD, WE ARE ALL THERE TO HEAR YOU ...!! :)
-P
2005-10-28
#6
Name: simba Subject: Hang in there
Hi Shanti,
I sort of know how you feel. We have been trying in 6 months with 2 early miscarriages.
So hang in there and things will happen when the time is right. don't mind me asking but Did you get your husband checked ? It's important he gets tested too. I know what your going through. We are married 5 years now, ... started ttc after 4.5 years thinking I'll have a baby right away ! But god has a plan for each one of us. He will take us through it. Be positive and our day will come too.
Take care,
Simba
2005-10-28
#7
Name: IB Subject: Hang in there
Hii Shanthi,
Though I have been trying to conceive only for the past three months i get very frustrated when it dosent happen. I can understand how you feel.. hang in there... your day is fast approaching... dont worry. .... try and be positive... i know its easier said than done but we all have no other choice. dont worry things will work out at the earliest & praying to god to answer to ur prayers.
IB
2005-10-28
#8
Name: Malathi Subject: Dear Shanti
Hi, though i am ttc only from the past 5 months, I can understand what u r going thru. My advice to u is to start life afresh from ur anniversary, that is nearing. Btb 'Happy Anniversary' in advance, even I am celebrating my 1st anniversary this month end. I think u need to relax that's the best medicine. I know it hurts and u feel everybody in the world is having a baby and why not me!!!! Probably this is ur testing time, ur positive attitude is being put to test. Pray, do it on the right days and just relax, good things will follow. Also, indulge urself in some activity as well. We all on this board are always there for u. I shall include u in my prayers.
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