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I have a small problem.
My parents have been looking for a boy for me to marry these past months. I live in the U.S. and was supporting my parents in their efforts. I told them some minor guidelines like he needs to be at least this tall, or he needs to be between this age. My parents, I trust their taste...but...

Just a day ago, my Mom surprised me to tell me a guy will be coming here from Philadelphia to meet me and so on.

I think I am a bit excited, but when I started thinking about it, I realize I am having feelings for a guy in California. He (the guy in California) doesn't know I feel this way because I am very shy.

I am not wanting to make a big deal of anything, but I am nervous, as this is the first boy that has come to see me.

If we don't hit it off, should I tell my parents about they guy in California. I exchange e-mail with him and pictures, my Sister cousin met him through her husband at his job.

Has any one ever experienced this that would like to share with me?

Just advice! replied. Hey you are getting too nervous... just relax and stop worrying... things will turn out fine...
I think you should meet the Philadelphia guy .... see if your ideas match...if you get along well... then meet the California guy...tell your parents about him... see what they think of him... and discuss openly... and if you don't like either of them no probs... someone else will come along... The issue is not to worry and certainly not to hurry.
Take your time, afterall its once in a lifetime decision.
All the best.