Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hello girls, I am literally waiting for your replies and suggestions on my doubt which I had posted yesterday ie 20th.

Don't know why I am feeling very sad and suffering with lot of anxiety. I really pray God to listen to our prayers and give success to all of us.

With Love,
Keerthi. Rupa replied. Hi dear,

I am sure u hve got the answers to ur query...so all i hve to say too is just hang in there...and pray to the almighty....everything is possible in his hands....

Just relax and enjoy ur life...as much as possible with making all the little things in life important...then u will knw there is no need to worry.

Tke care and we are here for u

Rups i replied. My dear,
Dont start taking all those tensions within u...U have to be relaxed at this time.I know how u feel but thats the thing.

Take Care my dear.My prayers r for u & all of us here..
I i replied. My dear ,
AS everyone has already told u be stres free mydear..That really helps.

DOnt let all osrts of tensions get in to ur mind...
My Prayers r withu my dear.SO be cool & for ur query the best is to have relationsship on alternate days & be cool my dear.

WIth prayers,
I karish replied. hi dear,

I think malathi and hopingfortejas has told u enuf. i dont much know as my periods are very erratic so i take the help of my doc and she suggests when to hav a relation and when i am ovulating. so i hv her by my side.

Neways i think u can go by what malathi and hopingfortejas said.

Rest is always in Gods hands and i know for sure we all will b blessed soon!!

Luv,

Karish malathi replied. Dear Keerthi,

I am not sure abt ur first question.

For ur second question, having intercourse every other day, such as on days 8, 10, 12, 14, and 16, or on the reverse days (9, 11, 13, and 15), can make a difference. I think hopingfortejas has said the right things. Even I feel u r doing fine. Also want to add that recently one of my friends after trying for a long time had a baby. She advised me to do it from days 10 to day 17 (Day 1 is the start of ur period)

U have also written that u have tensions in life. Now don’t add ‘baby making’ to ur list of tensions. Make it a pleasure and try being stress free. Even I expected results instantly but now I know it takes time. Don’t worry everything will be fine.

Bye
Malathi
hopingfortejas replied. Hey,
sorry i missed your message completley :( ..

i am not sure abt your first Q...

but abt your second Q , I have heard that it is always better to make love every alternate day during the fertile period bcoz the sperm count is found to be the better that way . so i think u r doing fine ...

and try lying down with your hips on an elevated position for maybe 20 minutes after intercourse, it increases ur chances if gravity is on your side during those crucial moments :)

Hope this helps,
-P