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My husband does not take the responsibility of spending some time with my son who is 10yrs old.I agree that he has lot of work pressures from the corporate world but that doesnt mean he should have no time for us on sundays too,he likes lazing around or looking into his sms or on the laptop.he doesnt want to know what our son does or what is going on in his school forget about taking care of his studies for a short time.we have a single issue(our son) and awful inlaws so there is no one where even i can share my feelings.There are hardly any children in the neighbourhood there too people are selfish and bitching courtsey my MIL.I dont waht to even think about those nasty people what i want to know is how to convince my husband to spend some quality time with our son.if i tell him he thinks iam lecturing him and he says enough,iam tired or he would be quite and just watch T.V.If he feels like he would take us out for dinner if he doesnt then even if you he break your head he wouldnt budge.I hardly get any time for myself if i want to relax or watch my favourite programme because even if i dont spend time with my child he will get totally witdrawn already he is a shy child.if iam busy doing some household chores my son would quickly start playing computer games.i want him to do some constuctive thing,pl... help. xxxx replied. Hey,


I don’t think you can do something to change your husband, Some men are like that. They only realize when they get old. Or some events can only change him. So just don’t worry about your husband and you start spending your precisions time with your kid. Try to find some friends for him from his school. Call his school friends to your place .Enroll him to different activates that way he can make new friends. since your husband is not picture doesn’t mean that your kid is insecure .Mother is just enough to raise the kid.So give him support as all he needed.I can understand you don’t get any time byself but you will be happy later point of life with your son love and support towards you.Your husband going to miss all the from your son.best of luck.You can take your son to some yoga class and you can also join in that.Plan some outside activities.So that you also don’t feel bored .