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I have been reading this site , want to seek ur comments on this.

This is regarding my SIL,

I have been married for arnd 5 years, Out of this 5 years My SIL is never spoke with me very nicely thou I am not bad or no fights bt us. She hardly replies to me even if u ask something.
\"; If I ask HRU ? SHe may reply \"; Fine \"; ('ll give phone to his parents) thats alll wont ask me how am I or How is my son or no enquiring abt anything \";

I Didnt get a good chance to stay in my Inlaws place, So dont know much abt those ppl. Hardly speak in the phone. I heard from my hubby abt my SIL that she doesnt know anything, calm , nice, simple and dont know how to fight ( retaliate ppl) and all.

She stays in the same town where my Inlaws stay and all time she 'll be at her Mom's place , rarely once in a month Visits her Inlaws place ( Good thing her hubby never scolds her for this ) and utilise all of our things. sometimes takes some Laks from my FIL.

Surprisingly Last week when v called home,

When I called she picked up the phone ASked hru and how is ur work( I asked abt her job)? She started updating with lots of information abt her house's construction work ( She bought a new house and going to do house warming pooja ), then my hubby spoke with her Again the same she was updating him a lot .

Till now She never ever enquired abt us here ? Now Y she has to update us a lot?

Onemore thing happened some 2 yrs ago:
WHen I recently moved to UK: She used to come online oftenly and chat with me & finds my job situation here and then stopped chatting.
I asked her when I called last time \"; Y I am not seeing u online nowadays , she replied me saying that she is not using Yahoo and using Google talk . Thats the reason not coming \";
She doesnt ask me whether I have Google id or not.

Till now She never ever enquired abt us here ? Now Y she has to update us a lot?

I have no hard feelings/hurts towards her and the way she taked lasttime made me think Why this girl behaving like this ?

What do u thi nk abt her ?
SSRR replied. You are a lucky girl.have not spent much time at inlaws.SIL not interfearing in your matters.Dont worry about money and things.it will come and go.Iam really jealous of you.just kidding!