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Nowadays unmarried girls talk too closely too men. With work friends also vn they talk touch and talk casually.In car also VN men give lift they sit closely.I feel very bad cing these things.

U make thing i am old fashioned. But one question why can't girls have some control while talking to men, atleast married men.


SONYA replied. That's is why a lot of Marraiges end up
in separation or divorce.

By the way, if I may add: I think the
problem is vice-versa. Unmarried males also
talk with married ladies. sweety replied. I agree and I was born and raised in the US. You don't become cool by being too touchy feely. Too be quite honest, it seems real slughty. If your educated and well learned there is no reason to use your seduction to make a place in society, why not use your brains and talent.
All male cousins and brothers I talk to always say one thing. We may look at girls trying to be westerns but in the end of the day we wish to marry a girl with culture and values.
Besides, if you yourself act that way your children will get out of hand and you are getting freer and freer by the generation. SO what is considered vulgur now will be normal in 10 to 15 years. grr replied. yes ramya true...women shud keep adistance frm both married as well as umarried men...can avoid loot of social problems frm that..mostly girls will give chnaces for men to think worng...and i never support wmen wearing tight western dresses(unless if it suits them)and they themselves think that they look like western people..indians are always indians ...we fatty thighed ladies looks vulgar in tight outfit...but we can just discuss here bcuz even some men like their wives to wear tight dresses..who said them that it looks beautiful?? Anu replied. When girls talk too closely to married men ,then they compare these girls with their wife.It creates lots of problems.

When talking with married men atleat they MUST maintain some distance. Swathy replied. Yes I have seen these type of ppl in my office too . I have seen few girls who used to talk with all the men in the project and keep touching and talking ( touching & hitting their tummies ) Its too irritating... I feel like giving one slap and say \" cant u keep distance and talk \" That too they r welll educated from a reputed University. I dont know how their parents react if they see this.

My Mom used to tell that if guys keep ( unnecessarily) touching & talking any other girls ( other than their sister or wife) then it is a \" SIN\" . How abt for Gals ???

God only help them .

Sumi replied. In India Vn they get lift in car they usually sit in the back seat only.But here they seat in the front seat only.
Vn they sit in front won't it distract the person driving even though they r friends.Why can't they sit in back seat here also.
Pls tell ur views friends.
hello replied. hi remya


yes, i also feel like that. it is true some girls when mngling with men talk too much and i don't know what they r trying to show, they r very free ,like that . i don't know. but everything should have a limit. i think especially when talking to married men . at least. it is not old fashion. it is the proper way. girls can be friendly and all but they should always keep the descency while mingling with men. with married men, they should get this much close to them.
also sandhya, u know, Indians r the ones who r doing this. it is not culture or somethng. u know, in our country only girls are flrting with men whenever they get chance. i think in U S women r more descent. exceptions r there. sandhya replied. I also feel the same thing yaar..I wish india will keep its culture.Being friendly with men is ok, as long as we don't cross the limit.I always kept a distance with boys when i was in college.I don't whether it is good or bad. sandhya replied. I also feel the same thing yaar..I wish india will keep its culture.Being friendly with men is ok, as long as we don't cross the limit.I always kept a distance with boys when i was in college.I don't whether it is good or bad.