Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi everyone,
i just want to introduce myself.I am Vidhya and am new to this forum...i have been ttc for the past 6 months with no luck....so thought it would be supportive to meet people in the same boat as me....one thing that concerns me,is i still have slight pain during intercourse..is that normal?if there are any useful tips...am eager to know!!! i replied. Hi dear friend.
Dont worry friend.WE all r here with almost the same kind or woth the same probs.
For ur query i think all the responses u got r worth.
Pray well.& think well.
Take care.
vidhya replied. thanks for all your support!!!!hope all our baby dreams come true soon! Rupa replied. Hello there,

Welcome aboard. We are here for u...to give u all the support and advise that you would require and vice versa.

My dear...go for a check up just to rule out all the bad possibilities and once u r done with tht..u will knw tht with ur prayers everything will be fine. So do tke a appointment with the doc and get her advise too..

Pain during intercourse..well like most of them has already told u..it must be due to dryness....and like karishma mentioned most of us just do it for only the idea tht we should get pregnant...so theres no enjoyment in it. So at the same time u r ttc also try to make tht moment special....u knw try to get rid of the thought tht i have to get it rite today and get pregnant...just try and enjoy it..and u can see the wonders.

Anyway i hope this has helped.

Wish u all the best...dont be worried at all...and u need us any time..we are here for u.

Loads of baby dust on u and all of us.

Beleive in god and see the magic he does.(though he usually delays the magic but keep praying)

Love

Rupa Karishma replied. Hi vidhya,

Hey we have made another friend in you. We at ttc are always there to give moral support when one gets low. It generally happens that by the end of one month, a friend goes thru depression, frustration et al. We are all here to give that much needed support that will ease your pain. Trust me, things are gonna work wonders for u.

As regards the pain during intercourse, see the things with people ttc is that we are just wanting to have a baby and when we have that frame in mind, we just do IT, for the sake of doing and we dont enjoy it. It so happens that we have intercourse just thinking abt. getting pregnant, so there is not much lubrication. Might b this cud b one reason for the pain. I guess it happens with many of us.

But dont think abt. pregnancy et al and just enjoy with your husband, go for a candle light dinner and do what pleases you both. I bet things will work just fine!!!! When we expect a gud thing, it goes away from us and when least expected it turns up. so expect the unexpected, baby!!!!

Feel free to drop in a mail whenever you feel like talking it out. We are all there and know what you are going thru.

Wishing you loads and loads of baby dust on u and all of us too!!

Luv

Karishma
Sunshine replied. Hate to say it, but welcome aboard. Don't feel down love. we're all in the same boat. And trust me, it's much much easier to give in to depression and grief and let what other people say get to you.
I want you to ignore these \";people\"; so called well-wishers. Just relax. Enjoy your life, have a good and health relationship with your husband. Eat, drink be happy. Don't feel stressed.
The reason why you have to do all this is that depression, anxiety, stress just delay the process even further. Be happy. Do things you enjoy. Smile.
And make other people smile. Trust me, God with bless you with a little angel soon.
In this time, when are TTc and it seems HE's not listening to our prayers. HE's merely testing the strength of your prayers and desires. Just thank God for all that HE's given you already. and trust that HE will answer your prayers.,...in His time, not ours.
All the best to you.
& lot's of baby dust.
Cheers!
With love,
Sunshine Latha replied. Welcome aboard! (Though I don't really want anyone to be in need of coming to this board).
Slight pain during intercourse is normal. Mainly because of the dryness. You can try to relax and also really set the mood for your night.

Good Luck
Latha