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tell me seriously how many of ur 'MIL'asks u wat u get for ur owm mom n dad?as far my 'mil expects us to get almost everything frm here for her daughter n her kids n stuff just like to distribute whomever she wants i dont no?even though we do so much expense frm here she expects us to spend our money not on her but her daughter n kids in India buying more stuff for them even there,i dont mind but isn't there any limit or am i wrong? how u guys manage such things.
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currently living in US,
tell me seriously how many of ur 'MIL'asks u wat u get for ur owm mom n dad?as far my 'mil expects us to get almost everything frm here for her daughter n her kids n stuff just like to distribute whomever she wants i dont no?even though we do so much expense frm here she expects us to spend our money not on her but her daughter n kids in India buying more stuff for them even there,i dont mind but isn't there any limit or am i wrong? how u guys manage such things.
Neela replied. wow. my problem is entirely different here.
I have a brother who got married recently.We both are at US.
You girls should look at the way my mother spends money for her DIL...ofcourse she has her sets of minor complaints about her...but right from the day when the marriage was fixed, there is no limit ot the items my mom bought for her DIL..like such an expensive dress for her birthday(even before marriage!..she has never bought me such an expensive dress for any of my birthday ), a jewel or 2 for any festival...et., there is no limit.
I am a cool person dont actually mind that but sometimes when I think of that it somewhat hurts..
She explains that my brother is her only son & she needs to do all these for her son's sake.I am not complaining here about my bother's wife.She is a normal person.But in the end I feel I have no one who would do all this upto so much details for me?.
My inlaws side are no good my MIL has never bought anything for me..infact she is so cheap that she made jewels & bangles for herself out of the gold that I got as my marriage gift?!.
So I feel like I am always a gifter never a receiver!
I think my problem is I never ask.May be I should start questioning or asking back.well, that is my story..felt like sharing...
iam a dil replied. hai! saina...its the same here.my sil is married to a respectable defence officer.she has everything that i dont have in US.every weekend parties, ball,affordable defence canteen items,servants,rent free home,free groceries,travel tickets,everything.and where they have posted,they dont have much work too.he comes home very early.but my hubby really works hard for evey dollar.my mil has seen that too.she had been here 2 times before.last time when she came she just shopped for my sils daughter dress only for almost 300$.then shoes,toys,gerber foods,baby bedding.one baggage was for sil and her baby.but when we gave her,her husband had a bad feeling and he said it openly,i can take care of my wife and kids..you dont have to trouble this much.but my mil was not at all bothered.she convinced my hubby to give her Rs 5000 for her daughters birthday.i too agree if sil is not married then it is a duty to do for her.but when she is married and very well settled thenjust for happiness a few dress or choclates or few gifts will be enough.but the same time if i get somthing for my brother,i had to see her expression.i just dont know how to satisfy her.
whe we went to india,as usual we went for shopping,we saw everything that is available here,even gerber foods and strollers,dress,toys,much at affordable rate.i told my hubby before my mil,that we are getting everyhting here.if we knew it before there was no need for heavy baggage.he also got convinced.but that was previous time.i dont know about next time.if she asks we have to give it.i just want a happy family not any curse.
2006-11-10
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Name: Neela Subject: the other side!
wow. my problem is entirely different here.
I have a brother who got married recently.We both are at US.
You girls should look at the way my mother spends money for her DIL...ofcourse she has her sets of minor complaints about her...but right from the day when the marriage was fixed, there is no limit ot the items my mom bought for her DIL..like such an expensive dress for her birthday(even before marriage!..she has never bought me such an expensive dress for any of my birthday ), a jewel or 2 for any festival...et., there is no limit.
I am a cool person dont actually mind that but sometimes when I think of that it somewhat hurts..
She explains that my brother is her only son & she needs to do all these for her son's sake.I am not complaining here about my bother's wife.She is a normal person.But in the end I feel I have no one who would do all this upto so much details for me?.
My inlaws side are no good my MIL has never bought anything for me..infact she is so cheap that she made jewels & bangles for herself out of the gold that I got as my marriage gift?!.
So I feel like I am always a gifter never a receiver!
I think my problem is I never ask.May be I should start questioning or asking back.well, that is my story..felt like sharing...
2006-11-10
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Name: iam a dil Subject: hai!
hai! saina...its the same here.my sil is married to a respectable defence officer.she has everything that i dont have in US.every weekend parties, ball,affordable defence canteen items,servants,rent free home,free groceries,travel tickets,everything.and where they have posted,they dont have much work too.he comes home very early.but my hubby really works hard for evey dollar.my mil has seen that too.she had been here 2 times before.last time when she came she just shopped for my sils daughter dress only for almost 300$.then shoes,toys,gerber foods,baby bedding.one baggage was for sil and her baby.but when we gave her,her husband had a bad feeling and he said it openly,i can take care of my wife and kids..you dont have to trouble this much.but my mil was not at all bothered.she convinced my hubby to give her Rs 5000 for her daughters birthday.i too agree if sil is not married then it is a duty to do for her.but when she is married and very well settled thenjust for happiness a few dress or choclates or few gifts will be enough.but the same time if i get somthing for my brother,i had to see her expression.i just dont know how to satisfy her.
whe we went to india,as usual we went for shopping,we saw everything that is available here,even gerber foods and strollers,dress,toys,much at affordable rate.i told my hubby before my mil,that we are getting everyhting here.if we knew it before there was no need for heavy baggage.he also got convinced.but that was previous time.i dont know about next time.if she asks we have to give it.i just want a happy family not any curse.
2006-11-10
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Name: saina Subject: hi
hi dil,
just wonder hearing the same story hope wen my mil comes, she doesn't behave like this, who knows anyway.yeah dear dont no how long she'll be dominating me as we can't say no to her by any chance for anything.u no wat trick my mil does not so sure if its a trick or she's is so innocent she keeps telling 'bout the things brought by other dil,even my sil does the same.i'm just married for2 years only so wat shd i make out of such behaviour?
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