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i am 21yr ol married woman with a two & half year old son yes i was married rather early my problem is my son is still on breast milk not out of my fish thou i married into this real tradtional family in my inlwas are uneducated to top it my son is the 1st and only grand son of my inlaws my husband has two other brothers married with 5 girl children and my son is only boy in the family they have made many offerings so that a son is born in the temple after whic my son was born now they tell i should give breast milk to him till his 4yrs cause he is a boy and so that he will grow up strong.i have tried to convice them but in vain they are illeterate and not willing to understand and also my hubby thinks theres nothing wrong in it also my son is very fair n chubby in inlaws says it is due to breast milk my inlaws do some funny rituals like every morning before dawn my father in law will come in my room and express milk from both my breasts and offer it to the gods and wash some shiv ling with the milk my son takes milk from breasts 5-6 times a day and also in between father inlw expresses milk from both breasts 3-4 my mother in law tells it will increase the flow of my milk as now more is required as my son is growing 1more thing i like to add my father in law takes out milk from mybreasts very roughly which causes great pain also wen i married my breast was only 29 size now it is 37 and am very fat just ok only breasts are more large also my mother inlaws does not allow to wear bra in house as i breast feed she says its not good to wear when we breast feed mother in law is very good to me she will force me drink lots of milk n certain stuff to produce more milk due to which my breasts are producing lot of milk they fill heavy and leak at times mostly when my son is still drinking from one breast other one statrs leaking my hubby went to dubai for job when i was pregnant and he now came down in august he came after three years he stayed for two months and went back i am three months pregnant and still my son is taking breast milk mother in law is tellin i can give and also after new baby is born it will be good as milk will still produce and son can have till 4yrs. any one here given child breast milk till 4yrs my breast size is increasing a lot due to it and way i can stop increasing size lso now my son is growining up he bits the breast giving lot of pain.please help rina replied. forget the query..its the replies given that r hilarious..i cudn't stop lafffing... xxx replied. hi,
u bitch or son of a bitch? whoever u r?i thinkl even in state like bihar there will be no family who would be so orthodox.u stupid fuc----------.try someother time with your prevert fantacy. wonder! replied. I think the rituals are going wrong somewhere! Ask your FIL, does he not require a bit of your vaginal fluid too? He can either do fingering or cunnilingus for the same. And I am sure you wont have any pain at all, except pleasure!

Sic! hmm replied. so ur prob iz u r having pain while expressing right?while expressing milk frm cow we used to put some oil ...so ask ur fil to apply some oil b4 expressing....eat some grass daily..so u wunt feel pain at all...n sleep in cow shed .for god's sake dunt play fun with a valuable n respectable word fil Swapna replied. This is really a guy ,trying to write rubbish on the board.A crazy nyphomaniac. Like somebody suggested ,she complains about the size n not about Fil expressing milk.Nobody beleives you here bitch. Nav replied. Really fake,esp after reading MIL's fingers are amputated,crazy!! anon replied. some sex maniac with sexual fantasies might be writing this story. or some family living in eighteenth century. there was one film long back made by a marathi lady director having tanvi azmi and anupam kher in the lead roles, an art movie. there too, there were some strange such rituals. but not as bad as it is described here.

is the author of the original post tanish or tanisha ??????? might be some guy wanting to discuss about breasts and so this story. if this girl is educated how could she be sitting quiet seeing all these outdated rituals. Very very strange. kk replied. if this story is from a tribal family i might have believe it. after reading ur post i don't thnk at least u r not from a tribal family. i don't know about ur inlaws. don't u have any education? or u people don't make doctor's vists during pregnancy and i'm wondering what kind of an idiot ur husband is?/ allowing his father to squeeze his wife's breast. i can't stop laughing. may be ur fl is enjoying t.

really weird and funny story. maybe fake.
if it is not, ot is high time to stop breast feeding and this BREAST SQEEZING RITUALS. hello replied. hey girl

i can't believe ur story. i don't know how u r allowing ur fil to express milk from ur breast??? IF U PEOPLE WANT SOME RITUAL U CAN EXP[RESS THE MILK BY URSELF RIGHT????? this is really bad. FIL TOUCHING UR BREAST AND ALL.

R U OUT OF SENSE??? anjali replied. I don't think it's a real story.you are complainin about your breastbut not about your fil who expresses milk from your breast. Nav replied. Hi,
I don't understand why your FIL should do all the milky rituals? If at all they are illiterate they cannot be un civilised? does your husband keep quite after knowing that his own father is milking his wife? I think it is high time you stop BFing your first child and go and start living with your husband where ever he is, I'm sure otherwise, by the time your second child is born, you will have made enough milk to start your own dairy and supply not just for your kids but for the entire colony, Grow up!
All the best!
Nav fren replied. well cant suggest anything on ur family situation

about breastmilk, i think u shd talk to a doctor, secretly if possible. Tell her your probs and seek advice.

You say u r 3m pregnant, i dont think doc will give u any medicines ... because otherwise i hv heard there are medicines available to stop creating breastmilk.

I think u shd secretly try to wean the kid from breastmilk. Consult the doc on how u can take the kid off the breast.

thinking of solving the other problems, of FIL etc ... well ... kya kahoon ...m shocked ..
dont hv words to express.

all the best Anon replied. What a crazy family .. they are illeterate .. Not you ..right ?? How can you allow your FIL touch ur breasts ?? So crazy !!!