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I have been writing about this from a long time but now there is a twist in the story i was on vacation to india and there is one of my husbands cousin sister staying with us here in dubai and she is actually got engaged here with my cousin brother as they liked eachother, anyhow my husbands cousin sister showed were nice attitude in front of me as if i am her mentor and friend here but this time when i want to india i came to know she has bitched and gossiped a lot about me and she has messed up with my inmage in my realtives(MY SIDE) they all think i am evil person and was toturing her now when i came back she knows that i know evrything she spoke about me some was plain lies and some where talks we shared between eachother as friends she let out everything now she is staying with us for another 10 days and will shift but my problem is i can't tolerate her she used me and bitched about i want to take revenge on her what should i do please tell..... and she getting married to my cousin sho listens whatever she tells never tries to clear anything with me and passes the information to my relatives in india, and by the way i was the one who had called them to dubai for job and helped them a lot my hubbys cousin sister was staying wth us for past 1and half year...
please tell... Tony S replied. Dear Sangini,
It is sad that your cousin SIL ditched u. But now she is staying for only 10 days. Later she will be married and busy in her life. So it is a good idea to keep distance from her without her knowing about it. Be tactful enough to avoid her sometimes and whenver u meet her be nice to her. Eventually she will change her opinion about u. Also do not divulge anything from your personal life - talk about the weather and other general stuff. Be tactful from now onwards.