Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi priya,

i am a silent member. hardly post messages, but felt like talking to u.

i had my first baby in sept 2005.2 mnths after u.

u r planning to have second baby. thats nice.
even i feel the same, but my parents & relatives say its not normal to feel that so soon.
they say, u wont be able to manage, let your son turn 1 yr, then u will realise how hard it is.

i am working part time, after my son.
dont feel like leaving him with baby sitter.

will u work after 2 nd baby.
do u think, one can manage?

i would appreciate your reply & thoughts on this.

thanks,
nid Priya replied. At first it was hard for me//i had no help. I am working now and i have a baby sitter who comes to my place and makes dinner for us too. It is a little easier and also refreashing due to warking too. I think i will work after my second. we are trying to plan after my son is a year in july. I n-know it will be hard. I have problems stioll after birth of my son, i have carpel tunnel in one hand and an aching back at times but i think this is all part of being a parent.Theres no gain withourt pain.
Priya Priya replied. At first it was hard for me//i had no help. I am working now and i have a baby sitter who comes to my place and makes dinner for us too. It is a little easier and also refreashing due to warking too. I think i will work after my second. we are trying to plan after my son is a year in july. I n-know it will be hard. I have problems stioll after birth of my son, i have carpel tunnel in one hand and an aching back at times but i think this is all part of being a parent.Theres no gain withourt pain.
Priya