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2006-10-30

Name: Sweety I recently came to know that my had sex with 3 women before marriage.I asked him abt this .He also told all the truth.He is now loving and caring with me.But this thoughts often come to my mind and disturb me a lot. Its really very hard to get rid of the thoughts.Its painfully also to know that i am not the only person and i am not the first person.

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2006-11-02

Name: Sanam
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I cant believe it...

that you are upset about such a petty thing. My dear he did it long before he knew you existed. Most men are not virgins before they get married. Please enjoy your marriage and your husband. Infact, it is very honest of him to admit that he has had sex before...most guys don't!

2006-10-31

Name: KUNJU LAKSHMI
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NICE GUY

Dear Sweety,

You husband did sex before your marriage. I don't justify him or crucify him. Men are not like woman. Most of them deviate from moral side when they receive secured chances.

However, he is a nice person because he ACCEPTED HIS MISTAKE what he did WHICH NORMAL MEN DON'T ACCEPT.

Forget and Forgive is the medicine for this. Love him, be happy and more active in sex with him ( when you came to know this your sex drive may gone down).

Some men & women are in HELL due to the torture of one partner for their pre-marital love or sex affairs.

IT IS USELESS TO FIGHT & SPOIL THE FAMILY LIFE.

FAMILY LIFE IS THE HEAVEN GIVEN ON EARTH BY GOD TO SEE WHAT WE WILL DO AND GOD WILL JUDGE US.

GOD WILL FORGET & FORGIVE WHEN YOU DO CONFESSION. yOUR HUSBAND ALREADY DID THE CONFESSION IN FRONT OF GOD & YOU.

BE HAPPY.

Yours loving Sister, KUNJU LAKSHMI

2006-10-31

Name: Sweety
Subject:

Thanks

Thank U friends for ur kind Advice.
Thanks a lot.Even though my mind full of pain i love him a lot.My mind wish to have all his love on me.NOw understand the wordings " LOVE IS BLIND " clearly now.I am also trying to forget the past but the thoughts are not going of mind easily.

2006-10-31

Name:
Subject:

Very sad

test urself and ur husband for HIV. hope he has not contracted HIV. if s, then god save u.

2006-10-30

Name: Ritika
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Re:

How did you come to know about such a thing? Could it be that somebody wants to spoil your married life? Be careful of such people in future..

Anyways,the main thing is that your husband had all these relationships in the PAST. There is nothing going on right now with any other women. Focus on that and try to forget about why he had an affair(s) before he met you.

You should only be concerned about your husband's loyalty and love towards you after he met you. Since he seems to be treading the straight and narrow path now, why rock the boat?

Relax and enjoy your life...

2006-10-30

Name: social man
Subject:

be strong

be courageous . its common with male.

2006-10-30

Name: horrible
Subject:

hai!

If iam you i would divorce him.no man will stay with a woman who had sex with 3 men before marriage.

2006-10-31

Name: horrible
Subject:

hai!

Hai rani!Hope you dint get my message clearly,maybe it my mistake too.when i read it i got very angry with this man.no man will stay with a woman who had affairs before,they all need a virgin wife.then why should a woman comprimise in that.that is what i intented to write.who knows this man may cheat her again!.hope now you can understant what i wrote.if their is any mistake please forgive me.

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