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hi,

this is a sad karishma writing to u all!! My UPT came negative. (sigh sigh!!)i hv to start all over again. O mi god!! i thought for a year or so, i will not b expecting any blood show. but my doc said i shud get it any time. i had slight spotting today so i went to my doc, she checked me and did a UPT, it came -ve. so she told that this is definitely ur period. but i thot it looked like implantation bleeding. anyways, now i have to start all over again. my DH is also little upset and is not being able to come to terms with this. He is just talking to me over the phone and said he is a bit busy and will come home asap. I am really feeling very bad friends. anyways, thts abt. that.

u guys take care and hope to see u all in the due date board.

luv always,

karishma Rupa replied. Hi dear,

Just read ur message. I am so sorry to hear this.I wish i had words to express how to console u.

Please my dear, do not lose ur faith in god.God is just testing us.He wants to knw if u hve all the strength it takes to deal with anything and we hve to show him tht we do.

Karishma if u r ok with it..i will give u a prayer, i dnt knw if u r hindu, muslim or christian....but there is no problem bcos i believe there is one GOd with different names thts all....anyway i have this prayer and i am going to give it to u..if u r ok with it u can say it thrice in the morning and evening......until ur wish comes true.....

This is the prayer.

OM DEVAKI SUDHA GOVINDA VASUDEVA JAGATPADE
DEHIME THANAYAM KRISHNA
TWAMAHAM SHARANAM GADA

I too will pray for u.hang in there my dear.

Lots of baby dust on u all the way

rups Lucky replied. Hey Karishma,

I am so sorry to hear that...but please please don't be upset. Trust urself and God. Very soon He'll bless you with the little one. I can understand your pain. It is really a ajeeb feeling...you do and then you wait for the result. But honey you trust yourself. I am in a kind a situation where I am waiting for the result, my period date is 13 I have crossed my fingures.
It is sad to see you sad. Trust me God will listen to your prayer and will bless you very very sooooooon...pakka.

take care
with love

Lucky Pace replied. Hi Honey,

I am so sorry for how you are feeling. No body can console you except you. When you are sad or feeling dipressed, first thing i would recomment you is talk to god, sit before your soul idol/God and talk to him, vent out all your feelings before him, believe in god and do this, it relieves you. then talk to us here in the board, you will be relieved. I know it is very hard to get of those thoughts and disappointments but you'll definatley have a loving kid in your hands. Believe in god and leave it to god dear.
Nambikkai replied. I am very sorry to hear that. I can understand our situation but don't worry. Leave it to the Almighty and have faith. Pure faith will work wonders. You bring a smile to so many thru your kind words. God will make sure that you have a BIG SMILE ....
So don't worry and Cheer up dude...

Love and Special Prayers,
Nambikkai Anupama replied. I am so sorry to hear this. Karishma don't forget IUI isn't that reliable. I also had two unsuccessful IUI. I can really feel your pain. I know it's easy to say live it on past and try to move on. Karishma give some time to your DH to cope with it. He is also in same boat as you are.
Karishma, don't feel bad there is always next time who knows God makes next time is your good time. Karishma don't ever give up we have to fight until we hit the success and the time will come to meet us on due date board.

Take Care,
With Love,
Anupa..