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Working Mother:PLZ help all experienced working mothers?
2004-12-19
Name: miti Shrivastava



I am in 2 minds what would i do when my baby is 6 month old & I join office which is better maid at home or creche?
Whom shud i trust to leave my precious little daughter with?
I am based at nagpur anyone from nagpur?

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2005-08-01
#1
Anonymous Name: rachna
Subject:  Creche



Hi
Miti,

I am a resident of Navi Mumbai planning to start a workplace Creche . In this regard i would like the support of all working mothers like you to help serve better . I would be obliged if you could fill up the questionnaire below and maybe get it filled by as many working mothers as possible to make my venture successful. The motive behind the questionnaire is to to get a fair idea as to how far is the project viable in India , running successfully in UK and elsewhere.
Waiting for your kind respose at the earliest .

Thanking you,

Rachna


WORKPLACE CRECHE FOR KIDS


1. Name of Interviewee ?


2. Name of the Company ?


3. Would you prefer a Workplace Crèche Facility for your child to a Crèche facility near your residence?

q YES
q NO
q I don’t/won’t need any crèche facility
q I don’t avail any facility now, but would consider availing a Workplace Crèche facility

4. What are the timings you would like to keep your infant in the Crèche?

q Day-time (7:00 AM-7:00 PM)
q Night-time (7:00 PM – 7:00 AM)
q Flexible

5. What kind of facilities you want in the crèche?

q Medical Care
q Pick-up and drop
q Play School
q Monitoring of Height, Weight and Growth of the Child
q Subsidised Charge
q Food
q Watching your child through the Computer Screen

6. What will be the age group of children ?
 3 – 12 months  12- 18 months  18 – 36 months


7. Suggestions/Remarks ( If any )
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2005-03-30
#2
Anonymous Name: Uma
Subject:  Advice from my senior...



Hi,
I was in the same dilemma till I talked to my senior who is a successful lady in her career.
She says leaving a maid with kid in a creche is the best option. She knows a good creche. If you need the name ,contact me.
And do let me know how u managed it finally.
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2005-01-18
#3
Anonymous Name: Meenu gupta
Subject:  Try this !



To deal with such a situation, I suggest that u can keep a maid for the baby and side by side u can opt for a home based creche where they allow the maids to accompany the child. That ways there will be a double check on both of them the creche lady as well as the maid and the baby will be all right also. While u r on the way back home after work, u can pick them up , u can go home and play with the kid and the maid can do the rest of the house keeping. That ways u r even free after work from house keeping job and also u get time with ur kid. This gives the great feeling of satisfaction of spending time with ur kid. And also u r more calm at work as that frees of the all time tension how wld the kid be at home if with the maid and how wld the household work be done if u opt for a creche only and no maid. I had tried that and I found that really working :):) Wish this cld give a solution. All the very best :)
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2005-02-14
#4
Anonymous Name: Shanthini
Subject:  Home based Creche in Bangalore



Hi there,
"Home based creche" seems a good idea.
But, can somebody out there help me by giving details of Home based Creches in Bangalore ? I'm based in BTM layout, Bangalore. thanks
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2004-12-22
#5
Anonymous Name: Jaya
Subject:  Hi



Hi,
I feel leaving your daughter with a maid will be better till she is at lesat 2 years old only if the maid is caring and trustworthy,because the child has more chances of getting an infection till he/she is 2 years old as her immunity is still not strong.Otherwise creche is a better option.
Jaya
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2005-08-16
#6
Anonymous Name: vandana
Subject:  fear of infections in creche for a small baby



Hi,

I tried this option, to have my maid with my 5 month son in creche which is nearby my residence, but ever I started leaving my child in creche, he is not well, he got cold once and not getting well since then. It looks like such a small kid catches infection from other children every now and then.
Moreover I'm more worried now, as he is about to strat crawling, so there are even more chances of catching getting ill, by crawling on the floor in creche .
Vandana
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2004-12-20
#7
Anonymous Name: Oceangem
Subject:  PLZ help all experienced working mothers?



Hi, I sympathize with you as I am in the same dilema. But frankly, I think leaving your kid in a Creche should be more better than keeping a maid inside your house.
You run a higher risk keeping a stranger inside your house with total access to every item in the house, with access to invite over other strangers...etc. Do let me know how you solve the dilema. Regards.
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2005-08-16
#8
Anonymous Name: vandana
Subject:  please advise



Hi,

Please advice...
How about locking the house from outside when maid is with child in home when I'm in office, making sure that everything is available in home that would be reqd during the day.

And asking her to call me when any urgency.. to add I can reach home from office in max 10 minutes if reqd.
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