Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hi all,
i was curius to know that can i request my doctor for the fertility drug and will it be covered under insurance.i have been trying from 6 months now after i had a miscarriage but no results doctors say that she will do something after i try for 1 year .i am alreday olanning my baby after 5 years of marriage and dont have any kid till now so i dont want to wait is there a way i can take fertility drufgs what do i need to tell the doctor thanks naina replied. hi archie thanks for your reply me and my husband both do computer work for the whole day he is 30 and i am 24 .my cycles are generally long like 30 to 35 sometimes 40 also like my last cycle i was suppose to get my periods on 27 august but i dint however its normal for me because everytime my date comes it is generally 5 to 7 days sfter the due date but i keep having a strong pain for a minute or 2 in my lower abdomin.i checked for pregenancy today and it showed me 2 lines 2 or was preety clear but i am not sure as the test is from india and we dint even tried mucha ta ll as my husband was too busy but i will check with another pregenangy test and see what hapens .till then if u have any advice for me let me know.as from 4 or 5 days i am having cold and fever i think it is not related to pregenency and if it is will it effect the fetus . i will write again ina day or two
thanks for your support.what do u think about the positive pregenency test can it be wrong archie replied. Dear Naina,
It may sound hard but it's better to wait for fertility treatment for another six months. I know you mentioned your need of a child but leave that to God and try your efforts.

Once you got pregnant suggest you both did not have fertility issue. Also once getting pregnant does not mean things will click just like that for second time, the fertility issues are same for first time ttc or subsequent rounds of ttc.

Fertility however starts to not respond very well if you are in your late 20s and if you are in early 30s then you must wait for another six months.

What might help and you don't need to buy that but difficult to do is to bear with situation and have patience. Do not harbor anxiety or strees during this period and I know couples who are healthy face trouble because they count on each cycle and this is what is wrong. Because when they count they are paying too much attention and stressing their body, which is very bad for ttc.

you did not tell what all you did to know ovulation?
have you bbt,
cervical mucus measurement
and/ or
used opk?

how regular your cycles are and what's lenght, add your age to that and your spouse age with the type of work you both have to do.

May be if you answer to points will be in a position to help you.

Archie