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Hi
its very odd to ask being a lady but trust me i dont know how to create self importence .......
my hubby is taking me forgranted ....treating me like a slave ....always complaining...always shouting...somebody suggested me to create self importence in front of him but how ?the question is i know i am a part of him but need to realise him also......i have tried once but it leads some dishoom dishoom ...so please ladies suggest me something..........please sonu replied. HI LOVELY SINHA

Dont panic whenever ur hubby scolds u or shouts at u be sad for sometime to show that ur hurt than cheer urself with other work. keep him amazing abut ur inner potential to sustain his abuses. Ignor him for sometime are he shouts at u. Do all ur regular work smiling without talking to him. Dont shout back but just keep a smiling face its hard but try it out. tm replied. hai!!
i dont think talking to him face to face will work out.first make him understand wot u r undergoing.its better to write it in a letter or type him a mail(if he is using email).fill themail elaborately withwotever u feel.afterall they r ur true emotions.
he will get angry with this also no doubt in tht but he will read it fully as a human mind cant resist itself from reading a mail halfway.he will read it fully.his subconscious will u]atleast realise wot he is doing.
if u talk he might not let u tell everything u want to tell to him.but this way u can convey ur side totally no matterhe gets angry or anything.
this is just a suggesstion.i think u can give this a try..
regards
tm !!