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Any one believes in this?..i am trying since long time to get pregnant.And recently i consulted an astrologer , without knowing my background , he told me some one did blackmagic on me to not to have kid(he even mentioned thier identification), so that they will get benefit out of it.believe me i never believe in these things, but he told me certain things, which makes me to beleive on him..am i sounding illitrate?.. vikram replied. yes, you are not illeterate, you can cure black magic, also there are some mantra sadhanas jazy replied. hi guys...
latha! that story was really good...somhow i thot while reading u mail that y there was only 1 footprint. then wen i found that god carried him thru his hard times i was really touched. u r rite! he is there. it is said that GODS KINGDOM IS IN US. EVERY HUMAN BEING. WE HAV TO HAV FATH IN HIM. n latha that thanks part is also good....u r rite.
ok now sangeeta ...i my opinion...if u feel this way ...to ease u r mind get the remedy done 4 it. so that in the back of ur mind u r releived. we shud not 4get that there r bad people on this earth too who can cause u unnecessary harm. even if u hav not don nething rong to them. this generally happens to good people. somtimes i feel te same too. i hav had an argumment abt this withmy hubby as he does not beleives in this. u r own relatives r sweet jealous of u .go 4 it ...get it recitified. so tat atleast u R satisfied...nd i m sure there r gods prayers offered to remove it.the positon v r in v dont want to leave no stoned unturned.tell us abt it .do u hav the feeling tat te person u r astrologer is talking abt mite b like this. all the best .i think latha she shud go 4 it ...coz her mnd will always be wondering so as to what that astrologer is trying to say. otherwise she wll be in tesion all the time. rectification....shud be done as early as possible.
lots of best wishes to all of us.
J Latha replied. Dear,

I am very sorry to know what you are going thru right now. Sometimes we are so desperate to have child, we go for astrology and believe lot of things.
Couple of weeks ago, Simti had similar situation. I want to write to you the similar things I had mentioned to her.

\";Whatever you do PLEASE NEVER LOSE FAITH IN GOD. GOD IS THE ONE AND ONLY HOPE, not doctors, not astrologers. I know it is very hard to believe what I am saying right now. But, you have to honey. Please don't ever believe in evil spirits or black magic. GOD'S POWER AND LOVE IS MUCH MORE MIGHTIER THAN ANY BLACK MAGIC OR EVIL SPIRITS.

Sangeetha, God is our father. How can he ever allow his child (us)to suffer or be affected by black magic and evil spirits.

I know honey, it's not easy to believe in God now, especially after trying for long time and diagnosed with unexplained fertitliy. I too had 2 miscarriages and we've been trying for more than 2 years now without any success. Even though I was a very bitter and depressed person during that time, I believe only God helped me get thru all the sufferings. God helped to find this site and meet wonderful girls who are always supportive. God blessed me with amazing parents, wonderful husband.

During my miscarriages, my mom wanted to go to the astrologer, I didn't stop her. (because she was so sad that time and she wanted to do something to stop my continuous miscarriages) But, I told her to not to tell me whatever she finds out. I didn't want to know. If I wanted to know what the astrologer had to say, then that means that I belive astrologer more than God. In my heart I know God has a plan, he will reveal that to me sooner or later. He loves me, God loves you and everyone. Whatever he is going to do, that is going to be for our own good.

I would like to tell you something Sangeetha-
One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene,he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonged to him, and the other to the Lord.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of foot - prints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life.

This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. \";Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me.\";

The Lord replied, \";My precious, precious child, I love you and would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.\";

Just when things look bleakest,
hang in there a little while longer. Because, God knows what you are going thru, Sangeetha, i would consider your situation as test of God. He just wants to know how strong you are, how strong we all are in our own situations.

I want to tell you again that, there is nothing is impossible for God. He created the world and all of us in it. And the black magic is created by human beings, that has absolutely no power in front of God.

Sangeetha, don't loose hope. Please count the blessings God showered on you. I do that everyday. I make sure that I think of atleast 3 things I am grateful of. Anything in the world I am grateful of small as food or even spice which makes my food delicious or as big as my parents and husband. We are all here for to give you support...write to us whenver you want.


Lots of Love and Prayers,
Latha.

P.S: Sorry for the long message honey, I just want to help you and support you. sangeetha replied. and i want to add that, i went throw, so many tests, procedure, docs diagnose it as unexpalained intfertility.and this astrologer whom i consulted is not moneyminded.