Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi Everybody!!,

Long time back i mailed to this board, expressing all my depression.
My in laws are also wanting for a baby badly. I have been trying for 1.7 yrs. no success.
I agree on karishma that it is not our fault and it is not in our control. Why only feel have to go through this. So depressing.
I got HSG and blood test done. Aug 23rd i have appointment with doctor.
I'am frustrated of bieng sad and depressed.
Last everybody whomever i met had all small babies in there hand and happily playing with babies. So now a days i don't feel like meeting anybody. At office there is hell lot of work to be done and full tension. That way i forget little bit.

I wish u all the best.
Lot and Lot of baby Dust

bharati Karishma replied. Hi dear,

Yaa truly its not our fault tht we are going thru all this hell. Guess, God knows whats right and when to handle us our bundle of joy. All of us in this ttc board are just waiting to hold our babies in our hands. So you dont fret. we are all there with u in this time of grief. Stay cool and stay positive.

you have only been married for 1.7 yrs. whereas i am married for 5 yrs.just imagine my state of mind.

Moreover my husband tells me why do u always hook on to India Parenting site. Little does my poor hubby know that i am venting out my feelings with all you amazing guys and tht i am finding complete solace in pouring out my feelings amidst you. hahahahah!!!

Neways you take care, read good books and always stay positive. We are all gonna have our share of joy very very soon and whom we will cherish time and again caus we know what hardships we have taken to bring this wonderful day in our life!! What say???

Luv,

Karishma Anu replied. dear bharathi

i can understand ur feelings.that too seeing our age gals having their baby..will completly make us sad and will sart longing for that eventhough we control not to think abt that.but have it in mind that its not bcoz of u.only thing we can do is stay healthy,be good, and have HOPE(either with GOD or with future and time).if u vent out ur feeling u can stay cool.so come here and pour out.feel happy that u r put with a job.atleast for sometime u can dvert from this feeling..right?.so thank god and wait for him to shower his blessings.all the very best dear,;;luv..Anu