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When I say I have a very understanding husband, what it means according to my inlaws is that their son is hen -pecked and dancing acc to wife's tunes !! Why this hypocricy? The son's parents search high and low for a bride. And after marriage, they dont want to accept her as a part of their son's life. We have been married for 4 years and live in France. My husband has always been a good son. Since marriage, we both started working abroad , built a big house in India for his parents to live comfortably, gifted them with a car, bought jewels for 2 lakhs on special occasions and been supporting them financially. Inspite of these, they have accused my husband of being calculative and that he is listening to what his wife says. I really dont know what I have done to get this comment. Initially after marriage, they were really good to us. But things are not the same now. I feel very sorry for my husband. He is quite calm and says that things will come down. I am the type of person who sees both positive and negative aspects of any individual. If anyone is angry with me, I try to imagine myself in their position to know whether their anger is justified. But however I think in this case, I am at a loss for reason. I hate to tell negative things to my husband about his own parents. But he himself has realised all these. My husband has an unmarried brother and till date, I must admit that any parent in the world must feel really proud to have such wonderful sons. Both the brothers have done so much for their parents. Should I just ignore my inlaws ? Is it really possible to ignore one's inlaws ? I remember the times when my inlaws have been quite caring about me. PLease answer. Another friend replied. IGNORE...!!! Ignorance is a bliss and continue being good to them as you've been and keep praying with hopes that they realize your worth some day...good luck! Another friend replied. IGNORE...!!! Ignorance is a bliss and continue being good to them as you've been and keep praying with hopes that they realize your worth some day...good luck! friend replied. Ignoring them is the best solution.
Once you start backfiring or even talkignwhat you think then the matter gets worse..So Ignore their comments BUT do what you should be doing for them according to your conscience...
GoodLuck